when someone says "my rich friend"

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Ou'well
This in my opinoin are the words of someone who feels inferior to the person being refered to.
In my dumpass brain, inferior is a dangerous tag to carry.
Because once one get's an opportunity to flee from it they will grab it and off they go.
It's a battle of constantly reminding oneself to be happy for the other person despite the desire to be in thier position.
And you don't always win.
You maybe just slightly fail to do it but mentaly you lost the battle.
Your self esteem is crushed.
You leave all the good opportunities to them.
Or
You tend to envy talk them with a negative vibe.
You start to abuse thier achievement and make them feel obligated to assist you.
Am not saying do not cheer for your friends
No!
Cheer for them just well.
But clean your heart and intentions as well.
Pave your path so you reach that point were you are are not feeling inferior.
You don't always have to take the same path they took.
Because in most cases, that is why one is a rich friend and the other a parasite.
Find your path and be thee financially independent friend too.
Now you burden your friends with guilt of leaving you out on things.
Because they do not want to burden you.
They do not intend of making you feel inferior for paying for you.
For making you thier plus one.
They want you to own a seat of your own.
But you somewhat feel obligated to be inferior for them to be thee rich friend.

None of you will bring it up.
So you start drifting apart.
You start the fake friend and snakes story.
No my friend.
It's the gap that is killing the friendship.
Level up inferior friend level up.
And thee rich friend should fuel your leveling.
It's that dense in my opinion. 🤷‍♀️

Much love 😁
Etuhole05

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