When you see someone has messed up -
You hear stories of them
You hear gossips and rumors about what they have done
Don't encourage that
Don't judge them
But instead, support them.
Try to put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself -
'How would I feel if people spoke of me that way?'
'How would I feel if people laughed and talked ill behind my back?'
(Yes, it's easy to say, don't give a fuck to what people say, but we all know it's hard to do, specially when people come and ask your parents, again and again, you're not hurt by people's words but you're hurt coz your parents are, and you're the reason for it)
We all make mistakes
No one's a saint
Be patient with them.
Stand up for them.
Because you don't why and in what situation they were in, that they screwed up.
You don't know how much guilty they already are.
You don't know how much they want to go back and change the past - but can't.
Don't make it worse for them.
STAND BESIDE
DON'T TALK BEHIND!
