My name is Akua and this is my story. I was at the age of 17 when I was in year 2 of Senior High School. I made so many friends and Ama was one of them. I loved her so much and thought that she was my best friend. She was the first one to approach me and asked me to be her best friend. At that time I loved her so much because of the way she approached. I still love that about her. That spirit of I want it, I get it. So we became friends, share our thought, talked about everything about our life including relationships, and learned together. Trusting her enough to talk about my relationship with her was my mistake. The truth is I don't blame her but rather blame my self for being so dumb at that time. But hey, I have learned from it. It thought me a lesson about life and friendship. So one day my boyfriend called and confessed to me that he slept with my friend. I was shocked because I do not know how they got to meet. I have never introduced them to each other face to face. I introduced her to him on my phone, I do not even know how she got his number, and they are living in different cities. I later found out that she traveled to his city during the weekend to spend with him and that is how they had sex. Funny enough before she went, she came to my place and told me that she was not feeling well so she was going home for treatment. So that is how they met and had sex. Guess what? I later found out from my boyfriend that, that was her first time. I felt less angry after hearing that. Till now I do not even understand why she wanted her first time to be like this. I mean who wants her first time to be with her friends boyfriend? For crying out loud they were still together at that time. But later on, I realized that it is her body and her choice. We can not tell people especially women what to do with their bodies. So she can fuck whoever she wanted at that moment. So guess what? I broke up with my boyfriend and still became friends with my friend. I dont know if I can still call it friendship. Because I still talked to her at that time but we were not close as before. Initially, I was not talking to her at the beginning but I later changed my mind after she asked for forgiveness. I dont know how you guys call it when someone smiles at you and laugh with you in your face but his or her mind is like you dont exist. I am sorry but that is how I see her at that time. I later felt sorry for her, is like I pitied her at that time. Okay, lets talk about how I am doing at the moment. Right now I am in college doing pretty good with my studies and Im also in a new relationship and I love my man a lot. I am so doing well for myself. I owned my own business and it is doing pretty well. But since then, I have decided to choose my friend, do not let them choose you. It is very important to be selective when it comes to the types of people we allow them to come into our life. Choose who you want to be part of your life story, dont let them decide your casts and plot for you.
