Book of advice

friENDship

Hindi lang ang mga couples ang pwede mag karoon ng away kahit mga mag-kaibigan din. Maraming friendship rin ang nasisira dahil sa mga problema.

Wala namang perfect na tao sa mundo kaya kung paminsan-minsan, may mga pagkakataon na nagkakaron tayo ng hindi pagkakaintindihan sa ibang tao. Lahat tayo unique. May mga pagkakaiba.

May mga oras na kahit yung taong pinaka importante satin ay hindi natin nakakasundo sa lahat ng mga bagay sa mundo at kadalasan ay maraming pagkakaibigan na nasisira dahil sa mga ito.

Andito ako, para tulungan kayong maresolve yang problema nyo.

Remember L U R E

Love

Understand

Respect

Explain

Love. You know how love makes the world go round? Because I don't know neither. You can't make up with someone if you don't feel any love or what for them. I remember my Values education teacher when I was in the Philippines told our class once that "The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. You can't really get mad at someone unless you love(d) or atleast care(d) for them. You wouldn't give a damn if you don't really care at all.

Understand. You have to understand where the other person is coming from. Just because you don't agree on the other person's opinion that doesn't mean they are wrong. You also have to understand that minsan mga mga taong hindi madaling magpatawad.

Respect. Respetuhin mo yung magiging desisyon nila. pag ayos na kayo, respetuhin mo parin sya para di na maulit ang hindi dapat.

Explain. Ipaliwanag mo yung nararamdaman mo, Kung bakit ka nagalit/nagtampo. Hindi yung basta basta ka nalang hindi mamamansin. It makes the other person feel so bad kasi it's like they didn't even deserve a proper explanation kung bakit nangyari ang masamang bagay na yun.
Remember L U R E.

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I'm out. peace! ✌🏼️

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