Why people hurt the other ones. Yeah, you should be kind and empathic al the time because you do not know if they are not leading their one fights and deal with their troubles but when someone hurts you again and again it's hard to be kind and empathic. Please do not hurt the others. It will not help your problems or your fights and you can easily lose friends without meaning and realising it. And when you realise it, most of the time it is over you cannot do anything about it only just look how you destroyed you relationships.