Badass/punk Deku ~ Shindeku ON HOLD!

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Hi beings. This is completely unrelated to the story or any of my stories. You dont have to read this, but I really need some advice on something. It isnt something to do with me directly, but it is something about one of my closest friends. 

If you dont want to read the full details, there will be a small-ish summary down below. From this point on there will be a lot of swears and talk about mental abuse and manipulation. For the summary, I will have it written in bold so you know where to skip to. 

Also to my friend this is about, if you happen to find my account and read this specific story. I apologise for not asking before asking for advice from some other people. I want to be able to do more than just sit there and do basically nothing than offer you someone to vent to and offer you hugs when needed.

Also, please keep in mind that I have not met the man I am about to rant about. All the information I am about to give, is what my friend has told me, and what I have inferred from what I have been told.

They recently came out as non-binary to their family and step-father. Their step-father, happens to be a huge dick. I am going to refer to my friend as S btw. From what my friend has told me, this is what I have gathered about the step-dad:

He is lgbt-phobic. Before S came out as non-binary, they came out as lesbian. He had a negative reaction to that. I have been told he has said homophobic things during arguments and has said how he dislikes the lgbt community. As someone who has multiple lgbt friends and is also apart of the community, his actions don't sit right with me. Shas told me that his behaviour and attitude had gotten better, but when they came out (forcefully might I add) he went back to the way he was and became worse.

He with holds information from them. Our school has recently decided to make some changes. One of which, is introducing Houses. (Btw I'm British so in our primary schools and some secondary schools they split the school into groups. Those groups are called houses. I don't know if other countries do that or not.If possible could someone give a better explanation on them) Anyways, earlier this month, everyone got letters regarding the changes when we go back. Those letters also told us what house we would be in, come September when we go back. My friend S, has said they haven't received the letter, though if that was the case, their biological parents would have gotten an email about it. Both me and S believe that the letter has either been lost in the mail, or he has taken it and has held the information from them. The only way my friend gets information regarding our school or other situations, is from social media or their friends.

Also going on from that, he always leaves them out of the conversations because they are 'just a kid' or 'its an adult conversation' or 'they don't have to be involved' S has also told me that their step dad get annoyed when they try to get more information, but then he also gets annoyed when S doesn't know what he is on about. S is expected to know even when they aren't told.

The step dad loves the little sister of S, we'll refer to her as M. So, the step dad loves M and doesn't really love S, he denies it, but it is very clear for S that they are receiving less love and attention. I have been told that he only cares when S's mum threatens to move out, break up with him and take M with her. He favours M over S. 

Now, this next bit does reference self harm. And the reason I'm not stating my friends name or their sisters name, is because I am going out of my way to get advice on this situation. From online, I can get opinions and views from people with similar living conditions whether its past or present. I am also not sure if my friend has a Wattpad account or not, but in case they do, that is why this is on my bnha story. My friend does not watch My Hero Academia, so I don't see why they would read this. Also, if they have an account, they do not know that this account is mine. I have not asked them if I can ask for advice from you lot, this is my way of trying to help their situation other than just sitting by and letting them vent to me. I want to be able to give them advice on the situation. I can not do that by myself because I don't fully know the situation, only what they have told me. And I do not have similar living conditions to them.