What You Didn't Know {Completed✔}

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Thanks a lot _Jhade for this beautiful cover❤🙈

Hello everyone, I'm Freda Danful from Ghana and I am so happy that you are reading this today..  I just felt like I should make this known to everyone so I did and I hope I helped someone.

In this world of civilization, in this modern era, in this world full of living things all around the globe someone is out there battling challenges,  someone is out there jubilating and someone is out there not even knowing what his or her purpose is.. I tell you, you could be any of these people.

Sometimes I sit and just wonder why certain things happen but to no avail.. Things happen and sometimes even till you die you won't know why.

People do things both positive and negative which has a great impact on their lives in the long run.

Sometimes I sit and wonder why some people behave like how they do. I imagine myself in certain situations and try to find solutions out and I realise it's hard. Yes it is so the next time you point fingers at someone for doing something you won't do remember this.. Put yourself in their shoes.. It may not make sense to you but if you think carefully you will understand.

Whenever I hear motivational speakers I just say oh yh it's just another person trying to make me feel good for a while only to lose hope. But I realised something! If you are not willing to go the extra mile no amount of motivational quotes can help you.. My dear ask yourself how did this guy become this succesful..most of the time people say they just started by doing this or that.
Eg I started in my garage blah blah and it sounds easy but when you try you don't progress and you think they lied.. No they didn't.. They said the truth but left out the important part..Mind you, they said they started there but they didn't say they ended there, meaning that was where they took the first step but they tried to make it better meaning they didn't just go and sleep in their garage they tried to make it a company.. What they all didn't tell you is that it was very hard..yeah it was hard.. I'm not gonna sugar coat it at all.. It will be hard but your ability to continue and come out victorious is what counts..Nothing good comes on a silver platter so you gotta work hard..

Everyone has a part to play in another's life.. If you didn't know already, the reason why someone is in pain is because of you, the reason why someone is happy is because of you and the reason why someone will even know how to differentiate between right and wrong is also because of you.

Why do I say this??

I have realized that the very first person to talk to a depressed person is the one who plays the biggest role on the next decision the person is to take .. When someone comes to you to even tell you about his/her life or problems it's a very big plus to the person because that is like a very hard thing to do.. Maybe in your life everything seems to be going perfect but in someone else' life it is not at all..

In this life you will face challenges,  regrets and a lot of things but your ability to accept who you are after all those is what will help you move on in life. Yes you will feel guilty and be filled with regrets for doing certains things but remember that you can't change the past but you can make the present better..

See there are people who will hear about your past and mock you, others will blame you, others will hate you,  others will kill your spirit till you break into tiny bits but in every bad situation there is a tiny bit of good hiding somewhere which you gotta either find or earn.. As a lot will judge you just like that others will accept you, others will be proud of you,  others will see you as their role model and others will love you because the biggest challenge in life is to fight even when your hope is as tiny as a grain of rice.. That is a challenge!! That is an exams and if you pass it you will find relief.. All those who judged you even without hearing your story will try to justify their points because that is how humans are.

Everything has consequences so when you repent from something or you change from your bad ways it won't just end there. There will be consequences. Some may be immediate and others may be later in your life. Do you know why?

Well it is because while you were hurting someone, while you were doing all those things you were adviced not to do, you killed someone's dreams, you killed someone's hope and you killed someone's child so that person was praying for you to be punished, that person was harbouring anger in him or her,  that person wanted your downfall and I tell you God hears the cry of the innocent so he will surely hear the cries of that innocent someone and that is why everything has effects both positive and negative.. God also hears your cries that is why in those times when the consequences and effects come he won't leave you alone. He will stand by yourside and help you fight it till the end because our God is a loving God and he forgives every wrong thing we do.. That thing someone did to you that you wanted to kill the person, one day you did it to God and he forgave you so why can't you forgive?

Listen to this.. God knows everyone in the world but ask yourself how many people do you know yet when one person offends you you can't forgive even after a lot of pleas.. How about God who knows everyone.. More than 1 billion people offend him every single day wait scratch that a day is too much ..every single second yet he is willing to forgive and still love you.

Indeed sometimes it is very hard to forgive but its a gradual process.. What you gotta put in your head is "I intend to forgive this person one day" and it'll be easier.. It can take you years to forgive someone but the main thing is that in the end you forgive.. Also there is time for everything so don't waste so much time holding grudges against someone.

Also if you offend someone please and please again *APOLOGISE*.. Please you won't die if you apologize.. Your name won't change to "gelegele" you won't collapse and turn to dust but do you know what you will do.. You will help someone feel better..you will relief someone of his pain and you will make someone let go of hatred!! I am a living testimony here to attest to this fact.. I have apologized several times even when I knew I was not at fault at all but here I am still alive and typing this..

I would like to use this opportunity to apologise to anyone who I have offended or wronged.. Maybe I didn't even know that I offended you but you know so please forgive me if you are one..

I am not a saint nor did I say I was holy.. I've done bad things which I regret in life but each day I try to perfect my life which is what we all have to do.

No one understands your problems than you yourself. You have questions right?
Questions like why did this happen to me?
Why am I the bad person?
Why is everyone living the best of life while I am here suffering?
Why is it that everyone is disturbing me to change my ways while they don't even know what happened in my life?
Why does no one like me?

Lemme tell you something.. Someone somewhere is praying for your situation, someone is praying he had that hand you claim to be nasty because the person doesn't have a hand at all, that leg you claim is too short so you are not on fleek because he has no legs to play football, that black skin you so much want to bleach because he has vitiligo and many others yet those people are still happy and thankful that they are alive. No one is asking for "nothing" everyone is asking for something so anytime you  feel down of yourself remember that someone wants to be like you, someone wants you,  someone is proud of you and someone loves you so much and most importantly someone is praying for you to achieve higher heights and become the better person you want to be.

NEVER FORGET THIS!! GOD LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU THINK AND HE WILL FOREVER DO!!

I love you❤
Stay Blessed💖