ninjago why cole doesn't have a girlfriend

Why he doesn't have a girlfriend

okay so, you know cole, the son of lou and son of the orginal master of earth, 

okay so basicly why he doesn't have a girlfriend, 

remember season 13 we get a explaintion of what happen to his mom , and who she was, in season 8 we get a flashback to when cole met master wu, he talks about his mom, cole was very close to his mom, him and his dad probably argued a lot when his mom left, after humilating himself at age of seven and getting sent to  preforming school he became a ninja, the same job his mom had, he lied to his dad about going to preforming school, cole trained under the care of master wu, who was like a second parent to him, cole made friends, but then season3 him and jay start fighting over nya, who was already taken by jay walker, cole started accepting nya, but then didn't want to be with her cause it would ruin his friendship with jay, but then later after that he meet a phantom ninja, who was a girl named seliel, cole didn't know it was a gitl, cole met and became friends with her, but, I don't know if she is his girlfriend showing that they would have shown that in the show, seliel could be the type of girl who is a friend who is simlair to him, years later we meet the princess princess valpia or valtia, she is stronge and brave and has feelings for cole, but cole on the other hand was just a laid back guy, he showed his affection for her, but didn't stay, to be with her, for crying out loud they barely knew each other or did they, his mom could have known who valtina was, when she was younger, her father could have been the reason cole mom got sick, and her dad might have talked about cole, and that's why, valtina , also was a huge fan of the ninja, she, later became queen, she even helped the ninja, cole, left her to travel with his friends, see the thing is cole might not want to love anyone else, because he might not want to lose them like his mom, she was close to him, cole might be just starting to let, people into his heart, remember he didn't have that many friends as a kid, or at the school he went to, his mom, could have been a friend like person, well, there still more to know when season 14 is out, seliel is revieled to be in it, maybe there'll be more details, then stay tuned  for more, see ya next in part2 bye