18th November 2020
I remember the time when I had numerous options to take admission in school when my father got re-transferred to Delhi. At that time, I chose to select the previous school where I have studied even though my friends got shuffled in different sections yet I avoided making a judgment about the new environment in the same old school.
Okay, Now, this gets interesting... Same school, but somewhat new environment, some new friends, and some newly recruited teachers!! Hold on!!!
At times we must consider that even though the place is the same, yet the people there influence the working environment and this negligible transformation impacts us broadly. So, it's not about the same old place or the same old company where you worked some time ago or the same older people working there; it's about the changing environment that impacts us positively or negatively!
People find it easier to adjust just because the previous place where they worked is known to them, but they fail to accept the fact that they deny opportunities and risk by feeling so! It's contradictory but true!! I too thought that choosing the same school might reduce my risk of failing to make new friends in the new school that too in the middle of the session which was quite a good decision but at the same time I denied the fact that I cannot trust my luck at making new friends that time!!!
Just imagine if I could have switched my school what could be the possible pros and cons?
According to me, the worst cons would be failing to make good friends which might affect my performance later and the best pros could be having a fresh new learning environment with a bunch of good friends. And, by analyzing this thing I clearly got to know that I supported my negative thought process which was somewhat helpful and somewhat not. But this implied that I did not take a risk which implies that I was denied an opportunity which lastly implies that I could have been more successful in building myself if I would have trusted the risky opportunity. Insane!!!!!
Introspection is a big word! Even if we try to analyze the opportunities including the risky ones consciously and make decisions accordingly then we could be in a better space. Because this is what we seek for and deserve too!! A better space! And, here I come to a conclusion that the decision that was taken can't be amended now in any way possible but it can make a difference if I analyze the worst-case scenario and the best-case scenario before making a decision.
What is your takeaway? Should I have considered the pros of the situation or the cons of the situation (as I did!)? Also, should we now think about our past decisions and repent? Or, should we be more concerned about the decisions that we are about to take in the near future?
Since it is a bed-night discussion so I want you to share your decision stories too! Whether it is a good decision or a bad decision! What challenges us to CHANGE is ANALYSIS!! Write yours too!
Also, will be shameless using few constant hashtags even though they make no sense... #Day3 #DocumentingMyLife #DigitalDiaries #PreservingStories #BedNightTales
Stay with me till Dec 31st, 2021 (Let's see what happens later!)
Ok. Bye. Good Night. Sweet Dreams. See you tomorrow night!
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