Fifty Percent Reasons Of Love

Introduction

Hi, my name is Kabelo. I wrote this book at the age of eighteen and on this book I’m going to be talking about love. Not the good parts, instead the horribly inevitable parts of it.

I used to believe that love ruled the world, that with love everything can be overcome, that anyone without love in their lives are missing out. But now this book is a sign of how I have changed my perspective of love.
First I’m going to take you back to all of my love experiences, with that being done I’ll reflect on what caused me to reach this level of love deficiency. I do still believe in love a little and hope that one day my views about it will change, probably. As of now my views of love are negative.

Have you ever heard of a hormone called oxytocin aka the love hormone ? If you have heard of it, good for you and if you haven’t then here’s what it is- it’s a hormone and a neurotransmitter that is involved in childbirth and breast-feeding. It is also associated with empathy, trust, sexual activity, and relationship-building. It is sometimes referred to as the “love hormone,” because levels of oxytocin increase during hugging and orgasm. My lack of knowledge for why my relationships weren’t working led me to wanting to find out what love really was , as well as how it comes to be. Rather than chasing the, “love is a feeling” cliche, I brought it upon myself to find the actual meaning of love.

Now I want you to re-read what oxytocin is by going back to the paragraph above. The line that states how oxytocin is involved in childbirth and breast feeding is the one that led me to this conclusion of men being incapable of love. This is my hypothesis so far thus it doesn’t mean it is true or valid, instead it is what helps me understand a lot of things in a much broader way. Both men and women cheat on their partners irrespective of their relation or their connections. How hormones are secreted cannot be controlled in any way by a human’s will to want to. The ability not to cheat is simply based on one’s mentality, per say if my mental strength as well as self awareness is weak, it is then prone for me to fall easily to cheating all because i’m not the master of my own will.

But if both my mental strength and self awareness were strong, then the probabilities of me cheating are minimized based on situation, together with the application of excessive control on one’s desires.

**To be continued**....