Behind The Pages

⚠️NSFW information about me⚠️

So here are my results from the BDSM test-

• 100% Brat Tamer
• 100% Dominant
• 100% Sadist
• 100% Rigger
• 100% Degrader
• 90% Experimentalist
• 84% Voyeur
• 69% Owner
• 68% Master/Mistress
• 45% Primal (Hunter)
• 28% Daddy/Mommy
• 3% Non-Monogamist
• 1% Vanilla
• 0% Masochist
• 0% Brat
• 0% Pet
• 0% Primal (Prey)
• 0% Switch
• 0% Rope Bunny
• 0% (Baby) Boy/Girl
• 0% Degradee
• 0% Exhibitionist
• 0% Submissive
• 0% Slave
• 0% Ageplayer

AN EXPLANATION:
Let's start from the top of the list. Top, geddit? No? OkAy.

𝑩𝒓𝒂𝒕 𝒕𝒂𝒎𝒆𝒓 (100%)
Within the BDSM culture, a brat tamer is a dominant who disciplines a naughty or disobedient submussive partner (also called a brat). This is a way for the dominant to regain power over the submissive if the submissive is not participating accordingly.

𝑫𝒐𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒕 (100%)
The person in any power exchange relationship who dominates or controls the submissive partner/s. From pro-dominatrixes or a dom with a regular job and life, only to dominate their submissive/s in private.

𝑺𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒕 (100%)
A person who feels joy (emotional, sexual or both) when seeing others in pain, humiliation and/or discomfort. However, it must be done consensually otherwise it is abuse.

𝑹𝒊𝒈𝒈𝒆𝒓 (100%)
A person who enjoys practicing rope bondage (for sexual or non-sexual reasons).

𝑫𝒆𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒆𝒓 (100%)
A person who enjoys degrading others.

𝑬𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒕 (90%)
A person who is willing to try anything/almost anything.

𝑽𝒐𝒚𝒆𝒖𝒓 (84%)
a person that likes to watch other people engage in sexual acts. (Consensually please).

𝑶𝒘𝒏𝒆𝒓 (69%)
A person that enjoys the thought of owning a person/people.

𝑴𝒂𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒓/𝑴𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒔 (68%)
A name for a stricter dominant person in a Dom/Sub relationship. Also refered to as the Top, Dom, Domme etc.

𝑷𝒓𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒍 (𝑯𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓) (45%)

A type of sexual kink or deviancy which involves becoming dominantly animalistic during sex. Can include scratching, biting, general brute force and animal-type noises like howling, snarling, growling, etc. The dominants in this kink community are sometimes referred to as primal hunters and the subs are primal prey.

𝑫𝒂𝒅𝒅𝒚/𝑴𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒚 (𝑫𝒐𝒎) (28%)
A dominant that takes care of a submissive. They often has their best interest in mind when punishing their submissive for their bad behavior and rewarding them for their good behaviour.

𝑵𝒐𝒏-𝑴𝒐𝒏𝒐𝒈𝒂𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒕 (3%)
Someone who is not bound to be in a monogamous couple, polyamory takes many forms, from an open relationship to cuckolding to orgies etc.

𝑽𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒂 (1%)
Sex that involves no kink and no BDSM. Basically plain regualar sex (which is completely okay!). Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey or can be just as rough as kinky sex, there are rules!

𝑴𝒂𝒔𝒐𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒔𝒕 (0%)
A person who enjoys, or takes pleasure, in feeling pain or humiliation. The term is not always sexual.

𝑩𝒓𝒂𝒕 (0%)
A submissive that likes to push their dominant's buttons on purpose hoping that they’ll punish them.

𝑷𝒆𝒕 (0%)
Usually describes a submissive who wants to take orders from a handler/trainer/master/mistress etc. and be trained by said dominant. A master/pet relationship is generally a more affectionate or loving than with a master/slave relationship.

𝑷𝒓𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒍 (𝑷𝒓𝒆𝒚) (0%)
A type of sexual kink or deviancy which involves becoming submissively animalistic during sex. Can include scratching, biting, general brute force and animal-type noises like howling, snarling, growling, etc. The dominants in this kink community are sometimes referred to as primal hunters and the subs are primal prey.

𝑺𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒉 (0%)
A person who vaccilates between and submissive roles within sexual relations. However, I am personally a dominant switch, meaning I'm always dominant but I can practice a number of either top or bottom positions in bed. 

𝑹𝒐𝒑𝒆 𝒃𝒖𝒏𝒏𝒚
A person who enjoys being bound with rope for sexual or non-sexual pleasure.

(𝑩𝒂𝒃𝒚) 𝑩𝒐𝒚/𝑮𝒊𝒓𝒍
Usually a childish submissive but can also just be nicknames for submissives in general.

𝑫𝒆𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒆𝒆
A person that enjoys being degraded.

𝑬𝒙𝒉𝒊𝒃𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕
A person that enjoys being watched when performing sexual acts.

𝑺𝒖𝒃𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒗𝒆
Someone who submits to a dominant.

𝑺𝒍𝒂𝒗𝒆
Someone who is willingly owned as property by a dominant. Slaves often have a very deep need to please and serve a dominant person, and doing so is one of the only way they can feel truly happy and complete. Not to be confused with a bottom or submissive.

𝑨𝒈𝒆𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓
A person that acts a different age to what they really are (not pedophilia in any way).

If you need any more definitions just ask, I'm more than happy to help. Same with kink advice, I'm HeRe-

But let's do some different type of serious talk here. I am a huge member of the kink and BDSM community. I've had vanilla sex about 2 (or 3- i DUNNO) times compared to the MaNy times I've had kinky sex. I'vd learned over a number of years ago that people shame our community, calling it "abuse" and "toxic". Though there are some fake people who use the community's name in vain to excuse their actions, that's not what we are. We just explore the term of what is meant to be sex. Whether it's doing another position than missionary, or it's (not so) straight up BDSM. In fact, studies have shown that relationships that practices kink, are more likely to be healthy rather than vanilla couples/groups. Sex shouldn't be something to be ashamed about, (unless you're into that-), it's something to enjoy.