Feminism And Relationship Talks

Body shaming

Everyone knows how this body shaming issue is💔
Both boys and girls body shame
The truth is some times we do it on purpose and sometimes we do it without the intention of hurting a person it might just be a simple joke to you but then it really hurts people
Like i said in the last chapter about confidence

complementing people affects them positively or negatively

Body shaming is very common now
For boys it's all about girls with big ass or big boobs
For girls it's all about guys that are 6ft tall

The truth is Everyone has a preference and there's nothing wrong with voicing your type  out
But do it in such a way that you don't hurt another person thatdoesn't fit into that description

If someone asks you as a boy what's your type in physical terms
You can say Well all body types are beautiful but i prefer
curvy girls with big butt
or curvy girls with big bust  
or slim tall girls

It's better than saying it in a nasty irritating and offensive way
Like girls are objects and it's all about their body
It's so bad that they make ladies that don't have big butt and boobs feel less of a person or feel like they should put up with shiit like big breast or big ass is gold
And then what about someone that doesn't have any
The truth is all body type is beautiful and beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder like I said
Not Every one likes big ass or boobs some people prefer slim and petite girls so don't let anyone shame you
Be comfortable with who you are don't try to change yourself
And if you feel like you need to change yourself or enhance some things to be confident then so be it
The most important thing is that you're comfortable ❤

And as for girls you can also say all body types look good but i prefer tall slim guys
Or tall built guys

Don't say it in such a nasty offensive way that'll make someone that doesn't fit into that description feel bad

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