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hi hi we are back again! without wasting any time let's jump straight into it <3

#1

aww i'm sorry you have to go through this, but you can't give up just yet! sure there are a lot of workloads that you can't bear to do anymore and you don't have the motivations to do them but you need to look forward and see the end of it! just imagine what you'll be able to achieve and get once you finish them- you'll be able to rest more, do the things you love without feeling guilty, and maybe even more self-rewards you prepare for yourself. i've always set a goal to help get my gears going and i would say something like "okay dee if you finish this you can get ice cream" or just anything to end my day with you know? there are many different ways to encourage yourself to be productive and i know you will eventually find one! try to get comfortable and open the windows to let the outside air in. make sure to use as much as natural lighting as possible too! it's good for the eyes and it might help you stay awake. you can't give up just yet bub, you got this! 

if you still feel demotivated, try to take a break and focus on yourself. sometimes, safe care is the key to motivation itself. good luck bub, i wish you all the best <3

#2

omg please don't be anxious! and please don't delete it too :( you've worked so hard for it, at least sharing with other people wouldn't hurt, right? even if it doesn't get the recognition it deserves, you can't give up because you've put a lot of thoughts into it, we don't want that to go to waste you know? don't worry much about what other people think because you started it because you love the idea of it, don't you think? no one is stopping you to express your talents and no one will judge you either. plus, i'm pretty sure most of them are anticipating it from you so don't hold back, you're gonna do amazing!

say what, once you published it please do tell me, i would love to check out your works! just hmu anytime okay? you got all my luck and i love you too <3

#3

aaaah thank you so so much :( you are also amazing inside out, never forget that! don't change yourself for others, okie? and thank you again, i do try my best <3

#4

hey, it's not wrong to feel insecure and vulnerable you know? how long have you been feeling like this, bub? :( i know you're just worried about everything that's happening around you and you just wanted to make sure that nothing bad happens, but overthinking isn't really the way. do you know that bang chan once said that it's scientifically proven that the more you think, the more negative your thoughts get? and this is exactly why you should free yourself from the many questions and thoughts in your head. take a deep breath in and out and fight off the negativity. if you're really worried about the future, instead of overthinking why don't you try seeing the positive sides of it? if you keep overthinking and worrying, nothing will actually happen because you were too deep in thoughts that you didn't progress with anything at all. when you do more activities, you will think less and it will actually help clear your mind. please know that i didn't mean any of this in a bad way, but you need to let some positivity into your life okay? i know for sure that you aren't seeking for attention and i am here to help you. 

again, keep your head clear, practice your breathing, and take a break if you have to. talk to me if you ever feel down again, i'll make sure to be here for you <3

#5

hi angel! yes i am, don't worry ^^ i hope you are taking care of yourself too my love <3 *hugs you back*

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that's it for now, i hope my advices help you in some way and i'm sorry if it didn't. but we can get through this, right? don't forget that you are loved by lots!

you're doing great, be gentle with yourself, dee loves you <3

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