Don't Judge Me, Judge Yourself Sis

I'm 24, a college graduate from a HBCU, and never really had a real boyfriend. How does one go from being guarded to becoming a hopeless romantic?Sex was never the issue. It was love. I mean, I love dick but I doubt that's the same thing , right ? Wait .. did that make me sound like a hoe? Let me start over. I'm 24...