Love Killer.A break- up

How many people have found their second half which later appeared to be a fail and a waterfall of tears? I am a person in that great group.
It's hard.
It hurts.
If you know a person who lived through a break-up without much tears and a psycho break- down then that person should be an example for you.
When a break- up was ugly, not personal then that person is a very unlucky one. If the break- up was and SMS or another person told you (eg. your enemy) that your 'other half' is (and was never) a real one.
It's sad for everyone.
A break- up is always a hard moment.