i wouldn’t, even if i was single, i would never want my bsf to get the wrong idea in anyway, it’s platonic with a capital ‘P’, but especially in a relationship bc that would be so disrespectful to my partner, our relationship and the life we’re building together, there’s always so much discourse on male/female bsf and the main issue is almost always ✨ boundaries✨ but it’s is such an important thing regardless of relationship/no relationship !
sorry for the tangent lol