-K0DZUKENN

How do you help someone whose having depression and consider of offing themselves? In my case my mom, she’s being wrecked after knowing my dad cheated. 

OPERATIVESEVENMOVING

@-K0DZUKENN Please, tell her to leave. Once a cheater will always be a cheater no matter what. Do not do couple's therapy it never works out in the end most of the time. Just leave without saying anything. Ignore him because once he lost what he already had he couldn't get it back. Tell your mom that she deserves someone better not someone who is insecure and thinks he loves his wife but then if he loved her why would he cheat in the first place? Once you and your mom are free and happy he's going to start thinking that "Why am I miserable all of a sudden?". People that are like that only think of being selfish because selfish people only think of free will and never the consequences of their actions. If he doesn't start going crazy because his wife and child left him then you should prove to him that you and your mother don't need him. He needs to know that he isn't needed nor wanted by both of you because that raises his ego. Even if he's a man he thinks the world revolves around him. That person that he cheated with is going to leave him some day or maybe it's the other way around with him leaving her for another woman or maybe even both. They might even catch each other cheating and fight to death. Your father may have been a good father (I'm just assuming) but he'll never be a good enough husband for your mom. Anyways, stone him to death. Men who look at other women with lust shall pluck their eyes out.
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strwbunnie

@-K0DZUKENN I know this is incredibly painful for your mom, and it must be so hard for you to see her like this. You’re doing your best to support her and that means more than you realize. Right now she may feel like her world is falling apart, but remind her that she is more than this pain, more than what happened. 
          	  
          	  Healing takes time, and it’s okay if she’s not ready to seek help in ways others might suggest. What matters is that she knows she’s not alone. Keep being there for her, even in small ways maybe like listening, sitting with her, reminding her that she’s loved. 
          	  
          	  And if things ever feel too overwhelming, don’t carry it all alone. Reach out for support, too. You’re doing more than enough. and hey you don’t have to carry the burden alone.
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-K0DZUKENN

@sasukeslut__888 I already console her many times, my parents doesnt believe in couple therapy, what do I do?
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AltNeuron

heyoo, Neuron here. Silent Consumptions is my JJK fanfic, dark, quiet, and sharp. If you're into slow-burn horror, cursed identities, or just curious vibes... give it a peek. Not here to scream. Just to linger. Let's support each other's worlds-drop a comment, I'd love to visit yours too.

-K0DZUKENN

How do you help someone whose having depression and consider of offing themselves? In my case my mom, she’s being wrecked after knowing my dad cheated. 

OPERATIVESEVENMOVING

@-K0DZUKENN Please, tell her to leave. Once a cheater will always be a cheater no matter what. Do not do couple's therapy it never works out in the end most of the time. Just leave without saying anything. Ignore him because once he lost what he already had he couldn't get it back. Tell your mom that she deserves someone better not someone who is insecure and thinks he loves his wife but then if he loved her why would he cheat in the first place? Once you and your mom are free and happy he's going to start thinking that "Why am I miserable all of a sudden?". People that are like that only think of being selfish because selfish people only think of free will and never the consequences of their actions. If he doesn't start going crazy because his wife and child left him then you should prove to him that you and your mother don't need him. He needs to know that he isn't needed nor wanted by both of you because that raises his ego. Even if he's a man he thinks the world revolves around him. That person that he cheated with is going to leave him some day or maybe it's the other way around with him leaving her for another woman or maybe even both. They might even catch each other cheating and fight to death. Your father may have been a good father (I'm just assuming) but he'll never be a good enough husband for your mom. Anyways, stone him to death. Men who look at other women with lust shall pluck their eyes out.
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strwbunnie

@-K0DZUKENN I know this is incredibly painful for your mom, and it must be so hard for you to see her like this. You’re doing your best to support her and that means more than you realize. Right now she may feel like her world is falling apart, but remind her that she is more than this pain, more than what happened. 
            
            Healing takes time, and it’s okay if she’s not ready to seek help in ways others might suggest. What matters is that she knows she’s not alone. Keep being there for her, even in small ways maybe like listening, sitting with her, reminding her that she’s loved. 
            
            And if things ever feel too overwhelming, don’t carry it all alone. Reach out for support, too. You’re doing more than enough. and hey you don’t have to carry the burden alone.
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-K0DZUKENN

@sasukeslut__888 I already console her many times, my parents doesnt believe in couple therapy, what do I do?
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-K0DZUKENN

Can someone tell me how to study? Somehow I got a D…

airxxheads

@-K0DZUKENN  help I have the same problem but what I do is I put my messgaes on do not disturb and I put my phone up, and what help sometimes is listening to something while studying, also working in a new environment helps a lot too, and take breaks don’t overwhelm yourself cus it will cause studying to be so much more stressful, I hope this helps!! 
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dabnab

@-K0DZUKENN what’s your major?
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-K0DZUKENN

So update from previous update my dad didnt have an affair or had hook up, they only texted each other but I’m not sure because my parents didnt tell all the details, they only tell that my dad was texting other girl and my mom ofc cried and my dad then felt guilty and they’re back together. So I guess we’re good but still I can’t believe my dad would do something like that

sasukeslut__888

@-K0DZUKENN well it's great to know that your dad understand what he did and is going to make amends to your mom. I hope everything gets sorted out between you and your family. You deserve all the happiness and you don't have to thank us for listening to you, it's the least we can do afterall you are such a good author.
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-COSMICGHOST-

@-K0DZUKENN thats acc a good dad woahhh, i rly hope everything will be going well from here on cause thats rly responsible of him as a dad. u gotta protect urself from people who give out evil eyes cause u dont wanna risk anything from here on. hope ur doing good rn dude!! love uuuu
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BLADESBREASTMILK

@-K0DZUKENN You're welcome and that's good to hear that your dad is understanding, I hope everything works out between your family. You and your deserve happiness, remember that.
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-K0DZUKENN

At night 2AM I was still awake I cant go to sleep because at 2AM my mom was screaming at my dad(The walls are pretty thin). At one point at 4AM i finally went to my parents room and shocked to see its not locked and I saw my dad hugging my hysterical crying mom who was sobbing really hard and calling my big brother’s name and my dad told me to leave and my mom then yelled my name too, twice. I didnt think anything was wrong so I left. Minutes before I open my parents bedroom I could hear by the door, my crying and repeating the words that he loves my mom. I thought their arguments was the usual (about buying a bigger house & recent argument does my dad love my mom or not) that same morning at 7AM my parents came out from bedroom said theyre leaving to see my late grandfather’s grave, my dad said its been awhile when my dad went to start the car my mom then whispers to me that my dad was cheating on her.

animelover422020

@-K0DZUKENN It's just like a Maya said. We are here for you and we are really sorry that you have to go through that. Just take a deep breath and clear mind. Just focus on the positive stuff and focus on your next step to having a smile and a wonderful day! Being sad isn't going to help anything, but being happy will make it better absolutely.
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sasukeslut__888

@-K0DZUKENN oh my god . I'm so sorry for you. I understand that it has been hard for you & your mom but I promise that things will get better. Stay strong and if you need someone to talk than I'm here.
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-K0DZUKENN

So I dont really know because I don’t really have anyone to talk to, I think my mom forgave my dad for cheating??? But at the same time she doesnt forgive him. We’re going out of town to meet my older brother, because my mom wants all her children to be there. Idk about what, I’m just worried they might have a divorce and whats going to happened as my mom doesnt have a job and stuff. Also the wh0re that had an affair with my dad is widow who has a child and she thought my dad kindness was something more THE AUDACITY BITCH LIKE WTF

-COSMICGHOST-

@-K0DZUKENN hopefully everything will be alright, but i feel like sumt is going to go wrong from here. i dunno, it doesnt sit right with me
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-K0DZUKENN

@where_the_fun_begins Im having mixed feeling about this, idk would it be better if they got a divorce or stayed together. Sure my dad is a great father me & my siblings could ask for but I don’t think hes a great partner…
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where_the_fun_begins

@-K0DZUKENN 
            
            I hope that everything works out
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-K0DZUKENN

My dad cheated on my mom

animelover422020

@-K0DZUKENN I'm really sorry about that..we are here for support if you need it..
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just_dead_tome

@-K0DZUKENN Don't worry love, I know how that feels. Just remember that we are here for you.
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-K0DZUKENN

Hii, Im sorry I haven’t updated. I really did want to update Ryu’s book because I did a lot of research and ideas for the plot but I havent been able to write it since I just found out my dad cheated on my mom, I didnt think he was capable of doing that because he’s always been very affectionate and loving to my mom, I guess I should’ve known better because he’s a man. Hope you understand, just give me a little more time. I still cant process this

-K0DZUKENN

@hazzawckd I just dont get it you know? Like i thought my dad who always make my mom happy with love and affection could cheat on my mom. My mom gave everything to him. I’m just conflicted rn
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hazzawckd

@-K0DZUKENN omg i’m so sorry ml :(( take all the time you need, there’s no rush to update nor come back to wattpad. you and your feelings come first, take as long as you need bae and i’m here if you ever wanna talk <33 
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