@-hellsmostwanted
I know nobody at all is wondering but I smell like weed, outlast berry deodorant, juicy contour noir, and Victoria secret pure seduction. I constantly get compliments on how good I smell. Even if you don’t smoke that combo is goated fr.
xoxo - Katt <3
Hey everyone, I just wanted to brag that my patronus is a king cobra!!
have a good day.
xoxo - Katt <3
The reminder I have untapped potential but zero motivation is irritating to say the least.
xoxo - Katt <3
My new thing is helping the needy and it’s a hobby that more people should try. So rewarding and free. I mean it would be out of pocket to mention that some of the people I help have more money than I do right now but it’s ok hehehe. Just happy to help.
xoxo - Katt <3
i volunteer at the food pantry, they honestly need volunteers more than the organization needs money bc there are so many volunteer hour openings that ppl arent aware of. its kinda physical tho but it depends what job like some elderly ppl vol too depending on which slot they sign up for. it doesnt always have to be monetary is my point, giving back can be done in many ways i love seeing people actively try to make the world a better place :)))
This year is 2016 do over literally, the unicorn frap is back so glad I’m 20 this time!
xoxo - Cherry <3
Yall, don’t call me anti-woman or anything but these days it feels like it’s so frowned upon for women to actually have a choice like we fought for. Like I do not dream of work, my biggest aspiration is to be a homemaker only, I have literally never wanted to work. But now people make it seem like if you don’t work, and take care of the kids, and do all the house work, AND go 50-50 with a man on all the bills that you just ain’t shit as a woman and it’s so exhausting. When do we get a break? Like this is 2025, the women before us didn’t die just so we can become complacent ladies. Stand up for yourself and have a back bone. Nothing is lonelier than realizing you were forced into a choice you didn’t want. Work or don’t, have kids or don’t, find a man that’s not smoothed brained and wants you to decide what’s best for you. Or don’t find a man at all, that’s always the simplest option.
xoxo - Katt <3
@spinalcordsword I’ve got an IUD and my husband had a vasectomy lol, we’re pretty certain nothing will come of that but if it does it does, I’m getting baby fever more and more. He has his tested every once in a while to make sure they don’t still swim
@-hellsmostwanted unfortunately in labor and delivery clinical rotation (of only one day a week for like 6 weeks, aka a pretty a short time) we had two diff women who had an IUD and still got preg (and one of them they legit could NOT find the IUD so who knows if its still in her somewhere or fell out or smth LIKE WYM U LOST IT???), another woman had her tubes tied and still got pregnant, nothing is 100% but u should be good lol but u never know. im glad ur protecting yourself and being proactive abt it, i hope u and ur hubby live happily ever after tho so u never have to actually use that backup plan :)))
@spinalcordsword I’m going to college even though I don’t want to for this reason. It’s not that I don’t trust him to take care of me but what if he gets hurt? What if he dies? What if he’s fired? What if by some miracle I get pregnant? (I have an iud and he’s snipped LMFAO) like I don’t want to be 35 and fucked cause this didn’t work out or my husband is gone. I’m fighting to keep the choice even though it’s not really a choice ☠️. We gotta protect ourselves in 2026 ):
lol so funny to get on his cod account change everything HAHAHA I’m so evil. (He can easily change it back)
xoxo - Katt <3
So I (20F) basically discovered that weed has 2 different effects on me. Sometimes I clean for hours until I’m satisfied, work until I’m dead, stack up the bread or am completely just a lazy fuck who refuses to do anything besides play video games. I don’t know. They’re testing me for ADHD and my husband is so adamant that I have it and need to be seen by someone better than my regular therapist/psychiatrist (it’s free to go there) but I do not have insurance. I don’t know how to fix this issue but I’ve been told by literally everyone around me that I am worse without it. (Mean, aggressive, scatter brained, dumb, reckless, etc.)
Are there any coping mechanisms or strategies that could help get on a regular cleaning schedule so I don’t neglect most basic tasks like home upkeep (more in depth ones than just sweeping, mopping, or doing the dishes)
Any advice would be so greatly appreciated, I want to note though I am not looking to stop at any point, I’ve been medicated every which way but loose and still nothing. Weed is the only thing that keeps me from needing bail money. Again. LOL. I would like to learn how to better manage this undiagnosed mental illness (kid me was suffering hardcore) and hopefully just lead a healthier lifestyle.
Again, any and all advice is appreciated, thanks for reading and giving my 1st world problems a chance. Signing off!
xoxo - Katt <3
Btw don’t put yourself in a position where you’ve got nobody but the person you sleep beside. When we argue or fight I feel like jumping off a bridge cause I have nobody to talk to.
xoxo - Cherry <3
lol starting the day off not speaking to my husband, fucking love that. Why are men so emotionally inept??? Like he considers my feelings but not all the time. I don’t know, I love him and can’t imagine my life without him but Jesus it gets exhausting trying to explain why I feel the way I do.
This is not to say I’ll leave him cause that’s not happening but I just wanted to whine about not really feeling heard. It’s frustrating when you’re being talked to like a child.
He’s amazing and I’m mentally ill so it might be me overthinking or it could be a real issue. I’m not even sure anymore.
xoxo - Cherry <3