@-hellsmostwanted
My new thing is helping the needy and it’s a hobby that more people should try. So rewarding and free. I mean it would be out of pocket to mention that some of the people I help have more money than I do right now but it’s ok hehehe. Just happy to help.
xoxo - Katt <3
This year is 2016 do over literally, the unicorn frap is back so glad I’m 20 this time!
xoxo - Cherry <3
Yall, don’t call me anti-woman or anything but these days it feels like it’s so frowned upon for women to actually have a choice like we fought for. Like I do not dream of work, my biggest aspiration is to be a homemaker only, I have literally never wanted to work. But now people make it seem like if you don’t work, and take care of the kids, and do all the house work, AND go 50-50 with a man on all the bills that you just ain’t shit as a woman and it’s so exhausting. When do we get a break? Like this is 2025, the women before us didn’t die just so we can become complacent ladies. Stand up for yourself and have a back bone. Nothing is lonelier than realizing you were forced into a choice you didn’t want. Work or don’t, have kids or don’t, find a man that’s not smoothed brained and wants you to decide what’s best for you. Or don’t find a man at all, that’s always the simplest option.
xoxo - Katt <3
@spinalcordsword I’m going to college even though I don’t want to for this reason. It’s not that I don’t trust him to take care of me but what if he gets hurt? What if he dies? What if he’s fired? What if by some miracle I get pregnant? (I have an iud and he’s snipped LMFAO) like I don’t want to be 35 and fucked cause this didn’t work out or my husband is gone. I’m fighting to keep the choice even though it’s not really a choice ☠️. We gotta protect ourselves in 2026 ):
THERES A TERM FOR THIS its called the "second-shift" where NOT ONLY are women expected to work now-a-days, BUT theyre also expected to do all of the stereotyped roles of cooking, cleaning, raising kids, ect. so its their second job, meanwhile men ONLY work and are not societally expected to help, and if they do then theyre praised for literally doing the bare minimum. i dont blame you for not wanting to participate in that lols it literally sounds like hell. real feminists would never force a girl to live their exact life and instead acknowledge that we all have different aspirations. good luck girlie<333
lol so funny to get on his cod account change everything HAHAHA I’m so evil. (He can easily change it back)
xoxo - Katt <3
So I (20F) basically discovered that weed has 2 different effects on me. Sometimes I clean for hours until I’m satisfied, work until I’m dead, stack up the bread or am completely just a lazy fuck who refuses to do anything besides play video games. I don’t know. They’re testing me for ADHD and my husband is so adamant that I have it and need to be seen by someone better than my regular therapist/psychiatrist (it’s free to go there) but I do not have insurance. I don’t know how to fix this issue but I’ve been told by literally everyone around me that I am worse without it. (Mean, aggressive, scatter brained, dumb, reckless, etc.)
Are there any coping mechanisms or strategies that could help get on a regular cleaning schedule so I don’t neglect most basic tasks like home upkeep (more in depth ones than just sweeping, mopping, or doing the dishes)
Any advice would be so greatly appreciated, I want to note though I am not looking to stop at any point, I’ve been medicated every which way but loose and still nothing. Weed is the only thing that keeps me from needing bail money. Again. LOL. I would like to learn how to better manage this undiagnosed mental illness (kid me was suffering hardcore) and hopefully just lead a healthier lifestyle.
Again, any and all advice is appreciated, thanks for reading and giving my 1st world problems a chance. Signing off!
xoxo - Katt <3
Btw don’t put yourself in a position where you’ve got nobody but the person you sleep beside. When we argue or fight I feel like jumping off a bridge cause I have nobody to talk to.
xoxo - Cherry <3
lol starting the day off not speaking to my husband, fucking love that. Why are men so emotionally inept??? Like he considers my feelings but not all the time. I don’t know, I love him and can’t imagine my life without him but Jesus it gets exhausting trying to explain why I feel the way I do.
This is not to say I’ll leave him cause that’s not happening but I just wanted to whine about not really feeling heard. It’s frustrating when you’re being talked to like a child.
He’s amazing and I’m mentally ill so it might be me overthinking or it could be a real issue. I’m not even sure anymore.
xoxo - Cherry <3
Locking into work so hard I reinstalled episode so I can rot my brain on my micro-breaks lmaooo
xoxo - Katt <3
Wattpad having its 19th a week after my 20th birthday is so surreal.
xoxo - Katt <3
Yall, my playlist being Taylor swift followed by lil Wayne for work tracks sooooooo hard. Been having to buy new jeans from working my ass completely off ☠️. A new car won’t buy itself ☠️☠️☠️!!!
xoxo - Cherry <3