-lostgardens

living while expecting that literally EVERYONE is out to get you in some way or another is miserable and exhausting, and i wish more people would realize that and try to change that mindset, coming from someone who used to think that way and grew out of it.

vivizex

@-lostgardens it IS genuinely exhausting!
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irxnblade

@-lostgardens yea cause what happened to "benefit of the doubt"? what happened to "giving a chance"? what happened to banter or simple friendly criticism and tiny little jabs? are we friends with someone cause we actually like them or are we friends cause they always listen to us and go with whatever we go no matter what. like a sycophant. might be getting off topic but still something to think about. i don't like how pessimistic everyone is all the time now
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-lostgardens

maybe this is naïve of me, but i like to trust everyone at least a little bit until they give me a reason not to
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-lostgardens

living while expecting that literally EVERYONE is out to get you in some way or another is miserable and exhausting, and i wish more people would realize that and try to change that mindset, coming from someone who used to think that way and grew out of it.

vivizex

@-lostgardens it IS genuinely exhausting!
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irxnblade

@-lostgardens yea cause what happened to "benefit of the doubt"? what happened to "giving a chance"? what happened to banter or simple friendly criticism and tiny little jabs? are we friends with someone cause we actually like them or are we friends cause they always listen to us and go with whatever we go no matter what. like a sycophant. might be getting off topic but still something to think about. i don't like how pessimistic everyone is all the time now
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-lostgardens

maybe this is naïve of me, but i like to trust everyone at least a little bit until they give me a reason not to
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-lostgardens

🐈‍⬛ — oh my heart hurts…
          the epilogue for born to die is out !!

-kimiverse

@-lostgardens well it's not gonna d*e because now i'm about to binge read, leave comments, and vote 😘🫶🏻
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