every person has feelings, and words/actions are the reason why people have a low self esteem, cry themselves to sleep, selfharm, or kill themselves, and you gotta realize that what you say, may not matter to you but it may matter to the person A LOT. i know "think before you speak" is a very common saying, but its true. if people were a lot nicer to each other, there would be way less suicides. and if you judge someone about the way they look, just stop bc they were born like that, and there isnt anything they can do about it. and if you judge someone about the things they like, because thats who they are, would you like it if everyone liked the same music, clothing, and stuff as you? no. i dont think you would. stop being so damn unconsiderate of peoples feelings, and being so full of yourself, bc one day you will regret it.