1HopeAndreaMikaelson

I just found out that my dad (who I haven't seen in seven years) when to my little half sisters graduation last week. He didn't show up to mine, but he was able to go to hers. The crazy thing is that every time I talk to someone from that side of the family they always say they haven't talked to him in years.... Jokes on me for believing them, huh? Well at least now I at least now I know the most likely real reason she never sent me an invite for her graduation. I can't decide if I want to be petty about it and let my inner bitch free, or if I just want to keep it to myself and sulk before moving on.  
          	
          	And just so you all know my younger half sister lives five hours away, and we don't talk much, but the last time we did talk (at my graduation last year) I told her to send me an invitation so I could know when it would be. And even then I expected our older sister who lives 40 minutes from me to let me know (they spend every summer together and never invite me, and when they do I'm stuck babysitting older sister's three sons) but she never said anything. (I also wasn't invited to older sister's wedding. Didn't know she was dating anyone or even got divorced for that matter.) 
          	
          	Now I'm sitting here, pissed and wanting to go off on everything and everyone, but the last time I did it I ended up getting backed into the corner (metaphorically since I confronted them over the phone) and I was the one who ended up saying sorry. That was also probably why we ended up farther apart now that we had been back then. 
          	
          	I just don't know what to do. Any advice?

Jordan19k

@1HopeAndreaMikaelson  and I suggest  you try and move on  to the best of your abilities im not saying  you gonna be able to forget  or forgive  the pain and hurt whether  that be emotional  or  physical but it will be lesser and you will learn to live with it and not let it or them rule your life. And ngl this experience  will help you u might not see it like that atm but in the long run you will learn something from it  and it will help you become  not only  the person  you are meant to be  or want to be but the  person who you truly are and can be.
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Jordan19k

this message may be offensive 
@1HopeAndreaMikaelson  Ngl I have a estranged relationship with my two older brothers at best  at worst there not my brothers at least not in anyway that matters first the oldest is always judging  me based  upon what his religion believes and trys to make anything  about him and like at one point  a week ago I had to go to our family's country  home to look up on my dog  because  his so old but that same evening  that I had arrived  i had asked him if let's say in the future  had a partner who is also a guy would you see me or judge  me or even them a different  way just because  we are two guys who love each other and he starts by saying no I could care less but the next thing he says is and I quote "just so your aware you would be committing a terrible sin against our lord and savior God and Jesus" and im like in.my head what did you just say before that you said you wouldn't  judge  or see me differently  but here you are saying something else and so that's my oldest brother  now for my middle brother  you is second oldest  says the devils  in you at one point and whenever  nowadays  I ask for advice and by that I mean unbiased  and based  on your opinion. But he says something and it not his opinion  because  its the opinion  of his religion so thats why ilearned  to just not give im sorry a fuck about whatever someone  says or does so long as it dont hurt me physically and thats why  for about 8 years  now dont see my older brothers as siblings or family  anymore  at least not whats supposed to  matter because  ima be real if you half sister  or sister isn't  there for you no matter  what you did or might do like for example  lets say you got arrested  at some point  and was accused  of idk murder  but you really  did nothing  but no one believes you would you siblings  still be willing  to risk that coming  up to the stand and tell them that you did not do it because  if you doubt that they would stand up for you even  for a second  then there not you family
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Mcv2424

I would get back at them but that's and I've been told that no one else has my mindset.
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Chel_igot7

Are you a fan of ginny & georgia? 
          
          If you are can you do a reborn as one of Georgia daughter maybe using young Amanda seyfried or Chloe rose robertson (luna from wolf pack series) i think is her name

1HopeAndreaMikaelson

@Chel_igot7 I saw a couple of episodes a year or so ago, I liked it but I didn't really get into it. But I can always try it again
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Chel_igot7

@ Chel_igot7  reborn as a fan of the series type
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1HopeAndreaMikaelson

I just found out that my dad (who I haven't seen in seven years) when to my little half sisters graduation last week. He didn't show up to mine, but he was able to go to hers. The crazy thing is that every time I talk to someone from that side of the family they always say they haven't talked to him in years.... Jokes on me for believing them, huh? Well at least now I at least now I know the most likely real reason she never sent me an invite for her graduation. I can't decide if I want to be petty about it and let my inner bitch free, or if I just want to keep it to myself and sulk before moving on.  
          
          And just so you all know my younger half sister lives five hours away, and we don't talk much, but the last time we did talk (at my graduation last year) I told her to send me an invitation so I could know when it would be. And even then I expected our older sister who lives 40 minutes from me to let me know (they spend every summer together and never invite me, and when they do I'm stuck babysitting older sister's three sons) but she never said anything. (I also wasn't invited to older sister's wedding. Didn't know she was dating anyone or even got divorced for that matter.) 
          
          Now I'm sitting here, pissed and wanting to go off on everything and everyone, but the last time I did it I ended up getting backed into the corner (metaphorically since I confronted them over the phone) and I was the one who ended up saying sorry. That was also probably why we ended up farther apart now that we had been back then. 
          
          I just don't know what to do. Any advice?

Jordan19k

@1HopeAndreaMikaelson  and I suggest  you try and move on  to the best of your abilities im not saying  you gonna be able to forget  or forgive  the pain and hurt whether  that be emotional  or  physical but it will be lesser and you will learn to live with it and not let it or them rule your life. And ngl this experience  will help you u might not see it like that atm but in the long run you will learn something from it  and it will help you become  not only  the person  you are meant to be  or want to be but the  person who you truly are and can be.
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Jordan19k

this message may be offensive 
@1HopeAndreaMikaelson  Ngl I have a estranged relationship with my two older brothers at best  at worst there not my brothers at least not in anyway that matters first the oldest is always judging  me based  upon what his religion believes and trys to make anything  about him and like at one point  a week ago I had to go to our family's country  home to look up on my dog  because  his so old but that same evening  that I had arrived  i had asked him if let's say in the future  had a partner who is also a guy would you see me or judge  me or even them a different  way just because  we are two guys who love each other and he starts by saying no I could care less but the next thing he says is and I quote "just so your aware you would be committing a terrible sin against our lord and savior God and Jesus" and im like in.my head what did you just say before that you said you wouldn't  judge  or see me differently  but here you are saying something else and so that's my oldest brother  now for my middle brother  you is second oldest  says the devils  in you at one point and whenever  nowadays  I ask for advice and by that I mean unbiased  and based  on your opinion. But he says something and it not his opinion  because  its the opinion  of his religion so thats why ilearned  to just not give im sorry a fuck about whatever someone  says or does so long as it dont hurt me physically and thats why  for about 8 years  now dont see my older brothers as siblings or family  anymore  at least not whats supposed to  matter because  ima be real if you half sister  or sister isn't  there for you no matter  what you did or might do like for example  lets say you got arrested  at some point  and was accused  of idk murder  but you really  did nothing  but no one believes you would you siblings  still be willing  to risk that coming  up to the stand and tell them that you did not do it because  if you doubt that they would stand up for you even  for a second  then there not you family
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Mcv2424

I would get back at them but that's and I've been told that no one else has my mindset.
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My_lov8

Your stories are amaaaaazing❣️but please finish them.

1HopeAndreaMikaelson

@My_lov8 thank you, that's honestly really sweet :)
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My_lov8

@1HopeAndreaMikaelson Well I hope one day in the future you can continue a project to your hearts content. And please go off on your not family they sound shady as hell. Then cut them off. They don’t deserve you and I don’t even know you nor them but they’re giving two faced bitches.
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1HopeAndreaMikaelson

@My_lov8 it very much is annoying. Because I love all these book ideas and every time I start one I think to myself "This'll be the one I finish" and then I get another idea and I dit h the others. And then when I go back to it later on I do either half a chapter, a few more chapters and stop again or I just reread it and then don't do anything for it because I've done lost interest. And it SUCKS
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