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I had the most weirdest conversation today-
OKAY- StOrY tImE
So today I went out with my friends and like one of my friends brought another friend (someone we didn’t know), Ig it was a friend from another school or smth
So we introduced ourselves and stuff and we were doing fine and all that, and then after like- maybe a few minutes, the new friend was like “do you identify as male?”
Ig I looked it, idk- I wear normal shit when I don’t have no one to impress (which pretty much is my hubbie)
So I was staring at my friends like ‘what this bish say?’ But I took it politely cuz they were just asking, so then I answered, “No, I’m a woman.”
AND THEN THEY COME WITH THE MOST BOMBASTIC RESPONSE- LIKE THE MOST HORRIFYING HORRIFIC THING I’VE EVER HEARD FROM SOMEONE ELSE’S MOUTH
“Oh, well, you don’t look like a woman with the way you dress.”
It was even worse bc (and I’m not shaming) but they looked like a trans-woman (and my assumption was correct, I learned from my friends that they were trans)
Anyway, I give the person a side eye for a moment before saying, “I’m still a woman.”
Then they answer with, “ohhh, you’re a cis-woman.”
By then I’m done with that shit and I flat out reply with, “I’m a woman.”
I get too confident in front of my friends, so I said that shit SASSY
They tried to continue to argue about it about how cis-woman means biologically female and that just made today so fucking annoying
Like I didn’t call them a trans-woman to their face, if they want to be identified as woman- ok, like fuck off by then. But suddenly it’s different when I want to be identified as a woman and not a cis-woman
Can we just make the world normal again and like, fucking respect people’s decisions???