@Albiethecat okay, i read this and i had to read it again because i am going through something immensely similar- but i say if people are giving you hate for trying to figure yourself out then maybe you’re talking to the wrong people. it’s not easy but if you know who you are isn’t who you want to be and being that person challenges society and societal rules then go for it. i know it’s not easy but it’ll get easier, i’m here if you ever need to talk <3