I just realized I'm not completely out on here...time to fix that
Hi. For those of you who don't know, my name is Xander. I'm addicted to late 90s TV shows nobody watches, like Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Xena: Warrior Princess. I love the word 'hella' and say it often, when I say anything at all. I don't talk much. I love basketball, and would love to play professionally, but unfortunately that's impossible. Let me tell you why:
Part 1 of the coming out portion:
I'm genderfluid. For you cishets and not 100% educated queer people (I hope it's okay that I used the q slur) (cishet is a word on dictionary.com guys omg) genderfluid means you flow between genders. That does not necessarily mean you flow between boy and girl, which some people do. I personally flow between boy and gendervoid and sometimes others
Gendervoid = genderless, and can also have some spacekin meaning to it
My pronouns are it/its, although some people use the pronouns they/them for me, which are also perfectly fine. He/him is okay, but I prefer the other ones.
The reason I can't play basketball professionally is I have extreme gender dysphoria, so I can't play in the league of my birth gender. I can't play in the other league, because I'm not, and never will be, completely out of the closet.
Part 2:
I'm demisexual and demiromantic (I think). I'm dating an amazing human named Margo and I love them very very much.
I really hope you don't judge me based on this, because i'm still just me. It's honestly been really hard keeping this a secret from some of you (particularly a friend in my current basketball league, you know who you are) because I hate lying but I was afraid of your reaction. I'm sorry
Much love,
Xan
