@ Amber_Sommers Wow, it's a little difficult. It seems to me that it is possible for each of the guys to meet with the main character and then in the future, before they meet with her, they can hear her talking to her mother about how she would find a good match, and she would be against it because she wants to go her own way.
And when they start dating her, she decides to talk about it herself, but the guys will say stop, they already know everything, she doesn't have to worry about it.