@MindlessElaine that is freaking awesome, My little brothers gf name is sade so it'll be all super WIERD when someone says sade or shardai and we'd both answer...but I give her props for sharing my name.
About to read your Cinderella story! And I have a sister named shardai. But I just don't know how to spell. Haven't seen her since I was 6. But I'm giving you a heads up!