AneesahAjam

My first post of 2025 and what is it?
          	
          	A rant about Toxic Masculinity.
          	
          	As a woman, let me make one thing freaking clear.
          	
          	If I get married in the future and my husband is insecure because he's more Malewife than Husband, this is my damn respons. I don't care if you're not some big manly man stud. Do you Love me? Do you respect me? Do you treat me as an equal? Do you listen to me when I need you the most? Do you still want to be around me regardless of my flaws? Yes? Then I f #king love you.
          	
          	A guy who thinks being a man is being the big tough guy, not showing emotion and being the big shot of the house,  is not attractive. Especially not when you don't communicate with or are not open with others.
          	
          	Honesty is the biggest green flag one can wave. Opening up about your negatives as well as your positives. Lying to anyone, especially yourself, will just do damage. Even if the truth hurts, lies hurt a million times worse. Same goes with secrets.
          	
          	Personally I think a relationship should not be about one person taking care of the other. It should be about both people taking care of each other. There should be no dominant role in the relationship itself, there should be equality. Two people together, working together.
          	
          	If you disagree, don't bother trying to convince me.

AneesahAjam

My first post of 2025 and what is it?
          
          A rant about Toxic Masculinity.
          
          As a woman, let me make one thing freaking clear.
          
          If I get married in the future and my husband is insecure because he's more Malewife than Husband, this is my damn respons. I don't care if you're not some big manly man stud. Do you Love me? Do you respect me? Do you treat me as an equal? Do you listen to me when I need you the most? Do you still want to be around me regardless of my flaws? Yes? Then I f #king love you.
          
          A guy who thinks being a man is being the big tough guy, not showing emotion and being the big shot of the house,  is not attractive. Especially not when you don't communicate with or are not open with others.
          
          Honesty is the biggest green flag one can wave. Opening up about your negatives as well as your positives. Lying to anyone, especially yourself, will just do damage. Even if the truth hurts, lies hurt a million times worse. Same goes with secrets.
          
          Personally I think a relationship should not be about one person taking care of the other. It should be about both people taking care of each other. There should be no dominant role in the relationship itself, there should be equality. Two people together, working together.
          
          If you disagree, don't bother trying to convince me.

AneesahAjam

this message may be offensive
So here's a nice story for anyone who is interested. I just played among us after so long and guess what... I got the imposter caught while I was ghost. No, i had no live friends and i didn't cheat. Let me explain. Two players Black and beige. Black kills me and I become a guardian angel. Since i was finished with my tasks, I followed Black to see if I could protect his next victim. There wasn't an opportunity until it was Black and beige alone in storage. I put protection on beige just in time as Black is about to kill him and beige got to live a few more seconds before the timer ran out. IDK why my timer was so much compared to imposters. After Black waits for a while, he successfully managed to kill beige and leave, but not before purple walked passed him and saw the body, leading to him being voted out.
          
          So TLDR, The guardian angel, me, failed to protect beige from Black, the imposter, but managed to stall for time and Black got caught.

AneesahAjam

HOW IS THIS MESSAGE OFFENSIVE, WATTPAD?!?!
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AneesahAjam

Hi guys!
          
          So big news (For anyone who's interested), I am going to be taking a Graphic Design Course!! Not really a brag but more of a heads up that I'll be less active on Wattpad. It starts in two weeks so if I don't post anything in the art book after that, let it be known that I am busy. This is really important to me so it needs my full attention.
          
          Sorry if this clotted up your inbox, I felt it was important to share.

AneesahAjam

Sorry to bug you guys but I felt like sharing some life advice
          
          If anyone tells you differently/tries to manipulate you otherwise:
          
          "Always be shamelessly yourself, but also be willing to improve."
          
          No human is perfect and no one should expect others to be so. You can't change who you are, but you can grow. It's called evolution. And if someone doesn't like the growth you've made, that's their problem and they have no right to make it yours.
          
          Thanks for readings.

queenmakala22

@AneesahAjam what an inspiring advice! thank you :D
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AneesahAjam

Okay, the funniest thing happened. I watch too many spooky stuff and I am trying to not do it near bet time. But I have a tendency to make out shapes from other things. My mom  came to sa good night to me but I only saw her outline and didn't know I was her. I saw it was a person so I screamed in panic t take my headphones off and run for my mom's room, only to realize she's throne standing right in front of me. I think we both got a heart attack (figuratively) but we calmed down and laughed. I still can't get over that legit thought she was a spookie.