-Hello_Earthlings-

I sent an Angel to watch over you yesterday, but they came back. I asked them 'Why, they chuckled, "Angels don't watch over other angels"
          
          Twenty angels are in your world, 10 of them are sleeping and 9 of them aren't and one of them is reading this message. The universe has seen you struggling with some days, it's over. A blessing is coming your way. If you believe in Karma, send this to 14 of your friends, including me. If I don't get this back I'm not one of them. (As soon as you get 5 back, someone you love will quietly surprise you... Not joking)
          
          Pass this message on and don't ignore it. You are being tested. Karma is going to fix two big things tonight in your favor. If you believe in karma, drop everything and pass this on. Tomorrow will be the best day of your life. Send this to 14  friends in 10 minutes, it's not that hard. Whoever else sends it to you must care about you.

Steward-the-worm

Hey.i heard u were struggling with gender/ sexuality. i can’t tell u who u r, of course, but i’d recommend trying out less restrictive terms like non-binary or genderqueer and seeing how those feel. sorry if that wasn’t super helpful, but know u have my full support!

Steward-the-worm

of course they will! If they don’t accept u, then u don’t deserve them
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Ani_crossdresser

@celestial-daydreams i fell like gender fluid. I am asexual and i enjoy being both sometimes a girl sometimes a boy.
            But mostly i leave as a male as i am working as software engineer.
            Will any girl accept me like this??.
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NealLightwood

I heard you were struggling with figuring out your identity.
          
          So I wanted to tell you something about myself that you might relate too:
          
          I am Genderfluid afab I do prefer the term non-binary or genderqueer and I feel more comfortable seen as a man and wearing men's clothes, but from time to time I would dress up quite femme (never dresses though), I like to wear jewelry, boots, and some feminine clothing.   
          It took me years to come to the conclusion that I am Genderfluid, sometimes I would feel more comfortable seen as a man, othertimes non-binary, sometimes both and rarely as a woman.  Sometimes I have (very mild) dysphoria over different body parts.
          
          I am Asexual so I can only really help you on gender advice not sexuality advice.
          
          It is confusing and it does take a while to understand and get use to.
          
          But you could be trans, non-binary, genderqueer, etc.  You pick the label as long as you feel it fits you are you are comfortable with it.
          
          How to figure out your gender: just be what you feel most comfortable, try out different pronouns on yourself, try out feminine/masculine/gender neutral terms and see what feels more comfortable and what brings you euphoria.
          
          I saw somewhere that being trans isn't just about being dysphoric, you don't need have dysphoria to be trans, what really counts is the Euphoria. 

NealLightwood

@Anicrossdresser 
            What about man buns?  If someone asks why are you growing out your hair just say something about it being a lion's mane or even that you're just interested in having long hair because why not, they might not ask about it again.  I've known plenty of guys with long hair its never made them feel any less of a man.   In others words short hair, long hair it doesn't matter people can have whatever they want as long as they feel comfortable about it, hair length is unisex.
            
            Look up Jason Mamoa, Jared Leto, Harry Styles.  Your hair can still be femme and long without people calling you out about it, just say you were inspired by those celebrities and wanted to see what it was all about.
            
            I know it would technically be lying... Let's not dive into that side.
            
            Also you didn't say you were a software engineer.
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Ani_crossdresser

@Betelgeuse321 as i said i am software engineer i have to be and look like male in my work surrounding. So i am not able to grow hair.
            
            I am getting frustrated i don't know what i must do.
            I am not able to enjoy my female side
            
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NealLightwood

@Betelgeuse321  
            Try growing it out, the process is agonisingly slow but it's probably worth it in the end, and if you don't like it you could always cut it again.
            Try looking up different femme haircut as it gets to that length.  There is actually a difference between masculine haircuts and femme haircuts (mostly for short hair).
            
            For me getting it cut was the most liberating experience, I didn't even know I was nb at the time.
            
            I think it takes around six months to grow from ear to shoulder length, it might be longer or shorter though I can't quite remember.
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-Hello_Earthlings-

Hey, I heard you where new. Welcome. I hope we can get along, or be friends. 
          
          So, I heard about your problem.  
          
          I would look everything up before declaring what you are. You may be non-bianary, gender fluid, or transgender. I will support you either way. 
          
          Good luck on this journey!
          
          -Forest

Ani_crossdresser

@-Hello_Earthlings- thanks you so much and i would like to be yoyr friend.
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tsarcos

Umm, hi!! I heard you were having some trouble, and I’m here to help!! If you cross dress, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you are that gender. My advice is to be a woman for a day and see how you feel, then try being a man, and non-binary... Find whichever gender makes you feel the most comfortable and confident!

VeraLisle44

I came here because of Yasi. I think that the best course of action would be to not ponder on it so much that it stresses you out, and just flow to whatever you feel is you. Of course there are many things, and you can be more than one of them, but you should just go with the flow. If you feel that you just don't want a label, that's fine too! Again, these things take time, so don't stress yourself over it.

VeraLisle44

@Ani_crossdresser  , I'm sure that you would be accepted. Don't stress it!
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Ani_crossdresser

@VeraLisle44 i am not much into sex you can say asexual but i love to be both and enjoy my life. Will any girl accept me like this??
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VeraLisle44

@Anicrossdresser , your welcome darling.
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owen_the_oven

Hi, I was told to come here since you were confused about your gender or sexuality. 
          
          Well, you could be genderfluid, non-binary, anything really. You don't have to choose one either, you can make your own as many others have. And, better, you don't even have to label. 
          
          I don't really help people much with this stuff, it's confusing for everyone, so sorry if this couldn't do much. I hope you find out soon! ❤️

Ani_crossdresser

@OLISCORNER15. Thanks for the advice and yes i fell i am genderfluid and asexual.
            But still confused
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