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My attitude about gender norms/stigmas is incredibly unbothered, and this tends to get me a lot of weird glances when I mention this, which is why I always have to remind people that I DO care about them. And by that I mean I think they're stupid. I've genuinely never understood why conforming to them is considered 'right', nor why some of the people I know are forced feel the need to. In video games, for example, my female friends would select the male model because they didn't want to be judged in co-op for being a girl. I, meanwhile, have always been an advocate for the opposite. Why can't people just be who they want to be? If it goes against social norms, or if people are bothered by it, just ignore them! There are people out there who will support you, and to the people who don't, fuck them.
Now, I do understand that there are scenarios where, online, you're forced to continue to interact with someone of a bad kind of people, whether due to an abusive relationship or some other circumstance. This is perfectly understandable, and I feel for these people and the horrible situation they've been put in. In general though, if someone has the choice, I think they should always be who they want to be. Always. Gender norms be damned.