I have some good news. Jayden and Eli have been attending therapy for their conditions. This provides a chance for parents like me to meet other parents of Autistic children. One specific family was on a holiday, they have currently 7 children, 2 that were at the therapy and social group. I believe that Hayes (the dad I met with his 2 of 7 kids) has Wattpad but I will have to send him a text message to find out his account name (we were discussing it but didn't get to finish because Jayden needed me).