Ace/Acer/Acey
She/They
Queer

You are Queer enough and you are certainly valid.

Reading lists:
Best of - the best books I have read on this platform
Better of - good books, good read

Always up for a conversation, very curious and wanting to learn. 
PLEASE correct me if I make mistakes, invalidate or insult you in some way. Nobody's perfect, and if they are, it certainly won't be me. Do try to be respectful about it!