i feel like i could be a therapist or a psychologist because the amount of books i read whether i'd be toxic relationships, sexual assault, abuse, it don't get annoyed or mad with the character for making the choices they make. i understand the reason they make those choices - i'm not saying this in a way of saying i feel what they're feeling because i don't - at all, i'm saying that i know the choices they make are not them and that they cant help it - which is hard for some people to grasp. i guess i just have patience. and i understand that everyone has different ways of coping; whether that be alcohol, sex, drugs, etc