@AriYouGood
sometimes i think i comment too much, but then i check my notifications on wattpad and i have 100+ notifications, most of which are people telling me how funny i am and i open a new book so i can comment more.
yes, my ego is thriving, thank you very much.
DVHSICDBAI HDJDBD GUYS TYSM FOR 40K READ ON TANGLED?????????? I LOVE YOU ALL SM HOLY SHIT- I GOT FOOD POISONING FROM RAW STEAK I ATE IN MY TRIP BUT WHEN I GET BETTER TRUST YOU’LL BE GETTING UPDATES
guys i have tech week for my school’s play….. i forgot abt it completely fml
“Québec couldn’t have been that cold!” when i got home and stepped outside, i considered taking my jacket off because it was too hot. it was -10 C° with wind chill.
anywho, (to the beat of without me by eminem) guess who’s back, back again. ari’s back, tell your friends.
was abt to say “no one writes bianca centric fics” then i remember she’s dead and there’s not a lot to write about in the after life ig
when the love triangle ends with the girl dating a completely different guy and the two guys actually in the love triangle get forgotten <<<<<<<<<<<
anyways, i have new fic ideas that im never gonna write-
@Vivi_fucking_slays and realise all that tension between the two of them was for another reason completely and then get their own enemies to lovers spinoff
I forgot to tell him- I'm engaged (on wp)
i might say something rly quick that will resonate with some of ya’ll.
HAVE ANY OF YOU SEEN MINECRAFT DIARIES??????? OR MYSTREET???????????? IT WAS MY ROMAN EMPIRE FOR SIX YEARS GUYS WHY IS MY FYP JUST EDITS OF MCDR
UGH I MISS THAT SERIES SM NOW NGL-
(BOTH SERIES BY APHMAU ON YT, HIGHLY RECOMMEND MCDR S1/2 THEN MYSTREET IF YOU CAN HANLE 2010s MILLENNIALS RP)
i’m pretty sure I mentioned this a little bit earlier, but my two friends went on their date today and it went so well. They both called me after and the guy is asking for more dating advice tomorrow when I have my free period.
like- ugh i feel like cupid.
now, when is it my turn?
@AriYouGood well my first ex is justified in not talking to me at all because that break up happened over email (neither of us had phones) but he was a hormonal teenage boy who wasnt "NICE" at all. and the second one, most recent one, well we were on and off for a couple of months but I then i was so done like he only expresses himself over text and pretends i dont exist irl so the best way to break up with him was over text because duh you're emotionally unavailable then so am i. "NICE" guy is bare minimum and somehow they be failing at that too
@yourlocalravenclaw16 having to specify ‘nice’ is crazy but SO REAL. like I thought my ex was a good guy and even though we broke up a year ago, he still tells me to shut the fuck up and kill myself… LIKE DUDE IM WING MANNING FOR YOU’RE BEST FRIEND BECAUSE MY BESTIE LIKES HIM. KEEP YOURSELF INLINE. (I broke up with him over FaceTime, which apparently justifies this btw)
@AriYouGood Girl you’re so real for that, I’m the exact same way with all my friends. Always giving out the dating advice but I’m so single
chat i took a leadership class instead of my communications class… ya’ll got any skills i can teach a class of 20 something people in ten minutes KEEPING IN MIND i’m an introvert and genuinely only taking the class because i’m becoming a drama teacher and can’t exactly teach them how to act
…i mean… wait no i COULD tho- is that a skill???? can i teach a class how to lie successfully for ten minutes? atp its that or how to fake pass out without hurting yourself (breaking your fall) or doing a cartwheel.
@AriYouGood to begin with i think i would enjoy a class like that very much, not the phones part but because i like discussions that way and i think thats very cool. also i think i get what you actually need for the whole thing and i think its really inconvenient that you cant do the photography one because that sounds so freaking cool i like the projector idea, i think if you're an artist you could give like a basics lesson on digital art maybe or something like that where you show how to draw something on your ipad
@yourlocalravenclaw16 that would be GREAT, but i gotta have like physical demonstrations, so like the example our teacher gave was juggling. then gave us like a warm up activity and then threw steps on how to do that… the thing is, the majority of my skills are technology based or in some way artistic. like if i could, for my lesson i would 100% give a quick photography lesson. rules of thirds, artistic lighting, poses, angels, etc. but we’re not allowed to have phones in the class (provincial law give teachers the right to make these kinds of decisions, plus it’s a social class where people engage in real life conversation. basically you’re fucked if you have social anxiety) so i can’t do that. what i might do if i can’t come up with something better then what i’ve already said or what people might suggest, is bring my mini projector and screen share my ipad and have the class draw something (like a hand, or something like that…) and have them shade it or wtv
@AriYouGood um...ten minutes? lemme think....okay wait so my mom is a psychologist and a mindfulness coach and she taught me this really quick thing about effective communication. so like you know in an argument how most of the time we end up just angry at each other rather than achieving a solution? so in this case she created this like process to make it easier she calls it AES A: acknowledge the other person's emotions. "You're upset and I understand that" or "You feel angry right now and I get that" never start with "I" tho always aim it at them cus then they'll pause E: express your own emotions "I think this might be unfair" or "I am also upset about this blahblah" never use "but" in the sense like "But i am also not okay with this" cus then the person may feel like you've acknowledged them then immediately not because you added your feelings to theirs. S: suggest a solution. like a compromise. so instead of going on and on about a problem and ending up with personal attacks and no solution, the argument is brought to an end. I used this to break up with my boyfriend too and it's pretty good. So you can teach it as a simple thing to be a better communicator in a stressful situation and it shouldn't actually take more than ten minutes. Just present a scenario, introduce the method, show its effectiveness, check understanding, okay bye everyone. Oh i wrote alot. idk. if this helps you then i'm glad tho, but you dont have compulsorily have to do it if you're not comfortable with it. okay byee.