ArionArabian

I have a problem here. I have tickets for the upcoming 5SOS concert and I'm going with my friends. The problem is that one of the friends I originally going with has ditched us for other friends. When my friend, Glenn, and I confronted her about it, she claimed to still be our best friend. It is clear that she isn't. Glenna and I feel that she is using us for our tickets to the show. What should we do? How should I handle this?

TwistArachna

@ArionArabian the best thing to do would be to confront her again about it. Obviously she isn't the friend she should be, and when you talk to her be sure to be upfront and give her reasons why you feel this way. If she continues to deny it then just say you don't feel comfortable being in this type of relationship and you want to spend some time apart. If she seems totally apologetic but still is going to the concert then I would ask if you guys can spend some time apart. And if you are afraid about her just totally forgetting about you guys- that is totally unlikely to happen. If you guys were close friends (close enough to invite to a five SOS concert) then she will most likely be feeling the guilt and will realize just how much you guys meant to her. I know it seems hard to ditch a friend, but I had to leave my whole friend group before- and trust me, I'm in a much better place now :)
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ArionArabian

I have a problem here. I have tickets for the upcoming 5SOS concert and I'm going with my friends. The problem is that one of the friends I originally going with has ditched us for other friends. When my friend, Glenn, and I confronted her about it, she claimed to still be our best friend. It is clear that she isn't. Glenna and I feel that she is using us for our tickets to the show. What should we do? How should I handle this?

TwistArachna

@ArionArabian the best thing to do would be to confront her again about it. Obviously she isn't the friend she should be, and when you talk to her be sure to be upfront and give her reasons why you feel this way. If she continues to deny it then just say you don't feel comfortable being in this type of relationship and you want to spend some time apart. If she seems totally apologetic but still is going to the concert then I would ask if you guys can spend some time apart. And if you are afraid about her just totally forgetting about you guys- that is totally unlikely to happen. If you guys were close friends (close enough to invite to a five SOS concert) then she will most likely be feeling the guilt and will realize just how much you guys meant to her. I know it seems hard to ditch a friend, but I had to leave my whole friend group before- and trust me, I'm in a much better place now :)
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