Ash_Lone_Wolf
Are there any non-male care givers within the agere community here that are between the age of 15-18 that are looking for a gf and a little to take care of?
Ash_Lone_Wolf
Ash_Lone_Wolf
So im having some family drama and could use some advice. My sister (thats in her 30s and has 3 kids) was upset that our mom is raising me better than her cuz she learned from her mistakes and stuff. So anyways I was defending myself and our mom while she yelled and cussed at me (in front of her kids) about how she had to work so hard for everything she has and that she had a job at 14 and babysitting isnt a real job (thats what I do since there isnt a lot of opportunities for 15 year olds where I am) and that I havent earned any of the things ive gotten. Now im not welcomed at her house and my nieces birthday party is tomorrow at her house and if want to go i have to apologize for "raising my voice and being a bad roll model for her kids" (again all I did was defend me and our mom calmly without even raising my voice while she was cussing at me). I really want to be in my nieces lives because I love them but if i apologize I worry that shes gonna think she can get away with whatever she wants and walk all over me. She doesnt even realize that shes in the wrong and has a problem (she has been like this for a long time where she would be mad if I got things that I "didnt diserve") but that doesnt make it ok and i know that and our mom knows that. Should i apologize so I can be in my nieces lives or should I not apologize and possibly never get to see them again?
Simp-for-food-X
@Ash_Lone_Wolf Your welcome. How are you a bad influence tho... Isn't that how communication works..?
Ash_Lone_Wolf
@Jessicaandlo thanks for the advice. My nieces b-day is actually in November. All of this drama happened last year so she has definitely had time to cool off but is still upset over because according to her im a bad influence and I was talking back.
Simp-for-food-X
@Ash_Lone_Wolf Well, I'm sorry you had to go through that and personally I also think that your sister is by cussing you in front of her kids. Seeing that you want to be in your niece's lives (which is very obvious) I think you should apologize so you can see your neice tomorrow, if your neices birthday was next week or later in the month. (I would let her cool of a little bit) Maybe you should listen to your sister vent a little..( You don't have to but it's obvious she is maybe jealous or upset for how things are for you or something or someone made her upset and she just snapped...) Try to get in her good books for a bit so you can see her kids... I'm not saying to make her walk all over you but let her cool off a bit and talk to her a bit later on (like 2 months from now or less)