Ash_bimess_TheyThem

So apparently not everyone knew the we’re part of a system and people have dmed me asking for everybodys names and pronouns and roles 
          	
          	Ash - they/them - host
          	Rex - he/him - little
          	Jay - gender fluid - protector 
          	Alyssa - she/her - protector 
          	Chase - he/him - idk wtf he does he’s only fronted once
          	Sage - all pronouns - gatekeeper 
          	
          	So ash is the main fronter and they’re the one who writes the stories and goes to school
          	
          	I kinda just front whenever I want as long as it’s safe for me to do so
          	
          	Jay is the physical abuse protector so they mainly front when taking abuse or when we’re in front of abusers they’ll front other times as well
          	
          	Alyssa is the verbal abuse protector so the same as jay but for verbal abuse not physical she also is like my babysitter 
          	
          	Again no clue what chase does we’ve only seen him a few times in the inner world and he’s only fronted once he seems cool though
          	
          	Last but not least sage she’s the gatekeeper so she’ll stop somebody from fronting if needed so like if ash was driving and I tried fronting not being fully aware of that sage would stop me from doing that
          	
          	That’s all of them bye - Rex

Ash_bimess_TheyThem

So apparently not everyone knew the we’re part of a system and people have dmed me asking for everybodys names and pronouns and roles 
          
          Ash - they/them - host
          Rex - he/him - little
          Jay - gender fluid - protector 
          Alyssa - she/her - protector 
          Chase - he/him - idk wtf he does he’s only fronted once
          Sage - all pronouns - gatekeeper 
          
          So ash is the main fronter and they’re the one who writes the stories and goes to school
          
          I kinda just front whenever I want as long as it’s safe for me to do so
          
          Jay is the physical abuse protector so they mainly front when taking abuse or when we’re in front of abusers they’ll front other times as well
          
          Alyssa is the verbal abuse protector so the same as jay but for verbal abuse not physical she also is like my babysitter 
          
          Again no clue what chase does we’ve only seen him a few times in the inner world and he’s only fronted once he seems cool though
          
          Last but not least sage she’s the gatekeeper so she’ll stop somebody from fronting if needed so like if ash was driving and I tried fronting not being fully aware of that sage would stop me from doing that
          
          That’s all of them bye - Rex

Ash_bimess_TheyThem

I confessed to my crush, got called a *insert f slur* and now no longer have a crush

Momojiroulover

Fight them. Throw them good punchs dude.
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zerovingtquatre

@ Ash_bimess_TheyThem  oh my God, I'm really sorry! They are a shitty person, you shouldn't care about them anymore because they will hurt you if you don't go away from them
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-noodle_

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@Ash_bimess_TheyThem oh shit frl damn- hope you alright tho don't let them get to you hun you deserve better
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Ash_bimess_TheyThem

Help me! 
          
          So I think that my crush likes me back, but I don’t want to date rn. I have so much going on and I’m not in the right mentality. And if they do tell me that they like me, I’m not going to be a dick and tell her to wait for me to be ready. But I also don’t want to reject them because it might ruin our friendship. So idk what to do.
          
          Also my other friend is getting bullied by his friend, and they keep bringing up things that trigger his ptsd, and I don’t know how to help him. I really want to punch them, but I can’t 

zerovingtquatre

@ Ash_bimess_TheyThem  You wouldn't be a dick if you tell them you want to wait and if they don't understand, try to forget them (I know it's hard)
            
            For your other friend, well I don't know what to do... Maybe you could try to talk to someone of that situation? 
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Ash_bimess_TheyThem

I see it as being a dick. Mainly because I lose crushes after a while if I don’t talk with them (I don’t understand it but it is what it is) so there’s not a guarantee that I’ll still like her. So if she has another crush but thinks that I’ll be there, and misses her shot with them but then I don’t have the same feelings, that could mess her up. I’m not explaining this correctly, but yeah
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Maria_is_me_hehe

you wouldn’t be a dick for telling them to wait. If they’re a good person, they’ll wait. If they don’t, they’re not worth it. Hopefully they’ll wait.
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Ash_bimess_TheyThem

I lost no simp September, but can you blame me? Natasha and jirou exist, how do I not simp for them? Wikihow was no use therefore I can’t stop simping for ‘em. 

zerovingtquatre

@ Ash_bimess_TheyThem  I already lost the no simp September since yesterday because of Ymir and Yelena (Snk) so I won't blame you
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Ash_bimess_TheyThem

If I were to walk up to you and say, “hey you seem cool, wanna be friends?” (Assume for the sake of it that we’re the same age) how would you react?  
          
          Im asking because there’s this cool girl in my grade and I don’t know how to make friends, most of my friends talked to me first and didn’t leave me alone until we were friends.

zerovingtquatre

@ Ash_bimess_TheyThem  Well, I don't really know, I think I would say "Of course" so, I think you should try to become her friend (also, you're already in school?) 
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Bean_in_a_Pan

@Ash_bimess_TheyThem I'd just be like "uh... sure?" Since I'm socially awkward and only made friends by befriending one and hanging out with their group until I'm just accepted. 
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Ash_bimess_TheyThem

If you could enter any animated show’s universe for 6 months, which one would you go to?

zerovingtquatre

@ Ash_bimess_TheyThem  I'll choose teh season 5 of She-a and season 2 of toh because it's more interesting than the first 
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-noodle_

@Ash_bimess_TheyThem The last season where everyone has a happy ending lol
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Ash_bimess_TheyThem

@ToHFan what season of shera would you choose? And what season of toh would you choose?
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