AshleyIrish1

Have you ever had someone explode on you when you try to set a boundary? Like they really get defensive and frustrated and cut you off entirely? Like you were just trying to set things back to like 70% , not 100%? Or, you want to talk on the phone once a week, not everyday. Or, o don't know, once a month , not every week, like you just want some personal space.  You want them to stay at a hotel, not stay with you. And you try to voice these things, but they get really offended.  Like " ok fine, I guess I just won't come," or I guess I won't stay with you," or like " I guess you don't even want me in your life. Like I won't even talk to you at all.." This is what you wanted alright,"  And then they just push you away altogether. I wasn't implying that I wanted to cut-off the relationship completely,  I want a healthy relationship,  Not- no relationship. " Hey, I really only have the time to talk once a week. I know you want more, but I'm not available for that, and I really love talking to you. Like, I look forward at the end of the week to being able to share part of my life- to share the things I've been thinking about. And so when you accuse me of not caring about you, or when you cut me off entirely,  like, I feel really grieved by that...but I'll respect that, I'm still hopeful that one day you'll  pick up the phone - Kate

SamAllen934293

I need help with that hook..plz

SamAllen934293

@AshleyIrish1 tysm!!! That's the one :) I owe u cuzzo
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AshleyIrish1

@SamAllen934293 ...Candles , they light the dark.. now I see how lovely the feelings are..pull me nearer,  please let me be a part.. tender love.  - Kate
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ScarlettBlackDaisy

Just noticed you've given my story my story a chance. So I'm dropping by to let you know that I truly appreciate it and hope you'll find my work worth-it. Feedback and comments are more than welcome. Once again, thank you so much for making my day better <3

AshleyIrish1

Have you ever had someone explode on you when you try to set a boundary? Like they really get defensive and frustrated and cut you off entirely? Like you were just trying to set things back to like 70% , not 100%? Or, you want to talk on the phone once a week, not everyday. Or, o don't know, once a month , not every week, like you just want some personal space.  You want them to stay at a hotel, not stay with you. And you try to voice these things, but they get really offended.  Like " ok fine, I guess I just won't come," or I guess I won't stay with you," or like " I guess you don't even want me in your life. Like I won't even talk to you at all.." This is what you wanted alright,"  And then they just push you away altogether. I wasn't implying that I wanted to cut-off the relationship completely,  I want a healthy relationship,  Not- no relationship. " Hey, I really only have the time to talk once a week. I know you want more, but I'm not available for that, and I really love talking to you. Like, I look forward at the end of the week to being able to share part of my life- to share the things I've been thinking about. And so when you accuse me of not caring about you, or when you cut me off entirely,  like, I feel really grieved by that...but I'll respect that, I'm still hopeful that one day you'll  pick up the phone - Kate

ScarlettBlackDaisy

Just noticed you've given my story a chance. So I'm dropping by to let you know that I truly appreciate it and hope you'll find my work worth-it. Feedback and comments are more than welcome. Once again, thank you so much for making my day better ❤️