I really am grateful for the vote, but in that OUAT story: Lily is NOT acting as she should, that woman basically commissioned a witch to drug up her crush for her... the setting situation is modern-day fairytales, but the behavior she does is criminal- the emphasis is basically not evil at all but amateurish; and focused on the internal chaos in the mindsets and hearts of the ladies involved that ensued from the idiotic stunt that played fast-and-loose with her crush's consent; it is NOT okay by any degree at all what she does, but the aim is to address the issue.
Basically in regard to this, Lily and Emma were utilized as actresses to make a cautionary social commentary on the messed up sorts of situations, however as fictional ladies they are... it certainly is NOT aimed at all at lewd nor criminal results aside from rebuking such choices.
