AveryArwen

happy pride and mens mental health month, everyone!
          	
          	if youre going to a pride parade, please remember to stay safe and drink plenty of water! i hope you all have the opportunity to be proud of your sexuality and celebrate it!
          	
          	im going to write a little more on mens mental health month as i feel it is just as important as pride, however tends to get overshadowed.
          	
          	although it is men's mental health month, it is not just for men. it is for everyone. we all have a mental health, some in healthier conditions than others, and that's totally okay!
          	
          	men often struggle to talk about their mental health due to the social stigma and the "man up" attitude towards men. i encourage you all, man, woman or otherwise to stop bottling it up - please, seek the help you need. whether that be a friend, family member or going to a professional. hell, you could even find a random stanger on the internet to just rant to. i encourage you to find a healthy coping mechanism for any mental health issues. that way, you can live your best life and treat those around you in a more considerate way.
          	
          	love you all, stay safe

AveryArwen

happy pride and mens mental health month, everyone!
          
          if youre going to a pride parade, please remember to stay safe and drink plenty of water! i hope you all have the opportunity to be proud of your sexuality and celebrate it!
          
          im going to write a little more on mens mental health month as i feel it is just as important as pride, however tends to get overshadowed.
          
          although it is men's mental health month, it is not just for men. it is for everyone. we all have a mental health, some in healthier conditions than others, and that's totally okay!
          
          men often struggle to talk about their mental health due to the social stigma and the "man up" attitude towards men. i encourage you all, man, woman or otherwise to stop bottling it up - please, seek the help you need. whether that be a friend, family member or going to a professional. hell, you could even find a random stanger on the internet to just rant to. i encourage you to find a healthy coping mechanism for any mental health issues. that way, you can live your best life and treat those around you in a more considerate way.
          
          love you all, stay safe

AveryArwen

CW// abuse
          
          After doing my own further research on the matter and seeing Wilbur's statement along with Shubble's response a few hours later, I have decided to no longer write any stories containing Wilbur. I had not watched Shelby's full VOD when I posted yesterday but now that I have I am disgusted.
          
          I cannot think about him without feeling physically sick. I am angry and disappointed. If you have not yet watched her VOD "talking about something more serious" I urge you to do so.
          
          Along with this, I will be selling my Wilbur and LoveJoy merch as well as creations and donating the money to domestic violence charities and recommend for everyone else to do the same rather than simply destroying them.
          
          Thank you to everyone who read my Wilbur stories in the past but I no longer wish to be associated to that man by any means.
          
          Love and supporting Shelby and all the other victims she has allowed to feel safe to come out about their own situations.
          
          - Avery

AveryArwen

Hi,
          
          CW// abuse
          
          I havent made a message in a while - mostly because I haven't had much reason to. But this this feels like it needs one.
          
          First off, I want to say that I love and support Shelby, she was so brave to come out and talk about her experience with an abusive ex. I hope it gives other victims the confidence to do the same. All my love goes to her and other victims in these difficult times.
          
          As of right now, we - as a community - do not have any confirmation from Wilbur or Shubble if they dated or if the abuser was Wilbur. However, the previous LoveJoy photographer made a tweet confirming "it's about who you [we] think it's about." and statements from friends about how Wilbur would, in fact, bite them. I am not expecting Shubble to give us any more information on who it may be other than it just being an ex due to legal issues that other victims have encountered in the past for doing so.
          
          Until we learn whether or not the perpetrator is Wilbur, I will be archiving my OC x Wilbur stories and if it is infact him, they will be staying that way. As a fan of Wilbur and Lovejoy for 5 years, this is not a decision or news that has been easy for me to digest and I have been thinking about it since I had been made aware 12 hours ago.
          
          If anyone is confused on what is going on, please feel free to ask.
          
          Love and supporting you Shubble x
          
          - Avery

AveryArwen

hi there its me again, just saw lovejoy in nottingham with good kid and loupe, all very good. 100% recommend to everyone, even if they dont listen to lovjoy because the atmosphere is so good and its very vibey with everyone singing! <333

AveryArwen

Because I'm a huge Geography nerd, I would like to let you all know that I've jsut found out the world is getting a new country by 2027.
          
          Papua New Guinea is splitting to give the new Bougainville independence after several wars! It is bordered by the Solomon Sea and Pacific Ocean. Its a really pretty place and I want to visit it some day.
          
          If I got any information in this wrong please correct me! 

AveryArwen

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Also
          
          If you see some of my stories appear then disappear after a few chapters, my attention span is just shit and I have so many ideas, once i get a new idea i lose interest in my old one so i put it in my drafts
          
          Theyre not deleted, just unpublished. Hopefully ill return to them soon :))))