Beomie_Jinnie
I am about to bitch here a bit sorry for the rant skip if needed :)
I have often seen the question "who is the top/bottom in the story?" In my books as well as my fellow writers' book.
Firstly read and find out? If you are so fixated why are you reading a story? Watch Porn to satisfy your fantasy... I mean its a book for the "Love" and the "Storyline"
The most ridiculous thing I read was 'he is bi he is "needed" to be top My internal thoughts were screaming at me: "I'm scared, they're giving sex position to people according to sexuality????!!"
Listen, real life same sex people doesn't have a fixation on just topping and bottoming *educating just for your knowledge* Just think about why will a person not use his primary reproductive organ which gives him pleasure during Intercourse? And vise versa why will a man not indulge in the curiosity to find out how his prostrate work?
And if you do find a man who really is just"top" sorry mate they lying and they never got backdoor from women.
Similarly for women no women will just top because all the nerve endings are in there in the hoo-ha! So nope thrusting a strap on into their partner won't satisfy them so they need stimulation and the other partner really will think about their partner's pleasure and will go on providing end too not just lay there and do nothing and enjoy the receiving treatment thats not how love and partnership work!
Thankyou for listening to my ted talk. And yet, If you are still fixated please skip my stories sex is never, never vulgarity or satisfying someone's invalid fantasy to me :).
zesthoney
@Beomie_Jinnie oh Jinnieeee for however I may sound in here in our comments I'm so awful at expressing human warmth.. Trust me I'll get squished any day from you yess always a yes... I really love reading stuff that keeps me sane and protects me from what horrible realities people could present at times .. So yeah it helps in ways something nothing does... And other than that I get your point building a story is so hard I never rush you unless it's for fun because I know the depth you need to write even a single chapter keeping in mind the last few chapters for character building... I know Jinnie I get it all... I love romanticising the character traits too imagine irl there's nobody so disciplined but you see many authors try so hard to inculcate the real life celebrity traits with the ones in the story and omg that's the best kinda collab like where are you people getting your brains from.... I wish I could write like you do .... The weather is great absolute favorite ngl I am a April baby so summer feels like home to me.. It's the best season.. We get to have fruits and I love the sunshine throughout the day.. And evenings feel like they're made of gold so I love summers best kinda days to live in.. I am so summer coded like from day 1 (since birth ig) I hope you're doing well too in this weather.. Imagining is just like a watermelon soda on a hot summer day so I enjoy all the way sometimes even more than the author because they're presenting this like small trinkets of their lives.. I love collecting trinkets from you'll (authors)