I just came out to my Mexican mother as non binary and she didnt take me seriously. I told her how coming out as non binary has made me the most happiest and confident ive been since i was young, and how i like to go by she/them aka ella/elle now, but she really didn't take me seriously.
She was saying that people, she didnt say me she said people, are taking stuff to seriously and whats the difference and why does it matter?
And i tried telling her its cause it makes people feel like they're not able to exist or be accepted she just stopped talking bout it.
Im legit crying, this hurts so much man. I didn't think it would hurt this much but it does. This hurts more than being told its just phase, which she told me when i came out as bi a few years ago.