@BocoIate
hii, are you currently open to new rps on discord?
Hello! Yes, you can refer to this book! Although my replies are really infrequent atm as Im under the weather
https://www.wattpad.com/1299709769?utm_source=ios&utm_medium=link&utm_content=share_reading&wp_page=reading_part_end&wp_uname=BocoIate
Hello! It's been a while since I posted! I was waiting for a solid time when I was feeling well for a solid week straight but that hasn't happened in over a few months.
My health has always been finicky, but this recent decline has left me struggling to get daily tasks done, let alone rp. And when I do have the motivation to, it's an obsession with one character that lasts for a few days and then it's back to struggling.
At this point Ive been just waiting to feel ‘better,’ but I don't think that's gonna come anytime soon so I thought I'd just post a notice here saying as much.
I usually go silent in PMs because it feels like Im giving the same ‘excuse’ over and over again, being sick, though I know I shouldn't feel that way. I try to respond only when I can form a reply to my rps, otherwise, it feels like it becomes a wall of text of OOP talking and the rp is countless scrolling to get back to chatting.
That's all to say, moving forward, I'll try to be more vocal and communicating moving forward! (Its always been a struggle of mine) I hope your Easter was filled with delicious chocolates! And I hope your year’s been great so far ^^ ❤️
@BocoIate // it's completely understandable, and i genuinely hope things get better in the future <33 take all the time you need!! (also, side note, your new theme/profile picture is v adorable ^^)
@BocoIate Completely understandable. Never apologize for taking time for yourself, especially when it concerns something as important as your health. Wishing you a good and eased recovery❤️.
@MochiPicchu LOL Ty! Health is a priority, yes, but I can do a lot better as far as communication is concerned. T-T It's never been a strong suit of mine but I'm working on it. I'll keep in mind the whomping though >:D
Omg thank you so much for the follow!? :D
After a good 15 minutes of stalking this page, I still cannot figure who you are xD
I went MIA from Wattpad for a while and so I’m trying to figure out who everybody is so hello! (ㆀ˘･з･˘)
My memory spans that of a goldfish lol. I'm assuming we had some sort of rp since I'm still followed so I must have enjoyed it. LOL, hello ^^
This is my summoning call.
@BocoIate
Happy happy new Year! ♡〜٩(^▿^)۶〜♡ My impossible resolution is to make a human Oc who has no supernatural thing about them
@BocoIate | THIS! I relate so hard to this, lmao. I won't even try to make a resolution for it. Anyhow, happy new year to you too, Bo!! Have a lovely and fantastic year, and I hope all your wishes/prayers will be granted. Stay safe!
The new aesthetic is pretty!
80+ Replied to in PMS thats an accumulation of 3+ years. I'm honestly so thankful that so many people have showed interest! Boy am I exhausted though _(´ω`_)⌒)_
Phase 1 is now complete so I now move on to Phase 2!
Oh! And if our rps were in comments, I'll be moving them to my pms and will let you know via said comment section. For those who I have multiple rps with, lmk if you'd prefer one singular spot in discord or something so we can keep track of everything lol.
Lastly, lastly. If you didn't happen to get a pm from me and the last reply was made since November, feel free to pm me and perhaps we can work something out! I either didn't enjoy the rp/and or our writing styles didn't click for me. My apologies for ghosting and not taking the confrontation. My anxiety got the better of me. I'm working on it!
Phase 2 talk now lol:
- Aesthetic changes
- Second Individual book
- Replying to current rps
- Brainstorming with new rps
That about sums it up! There should be some changes coming soon fingers crossed and now that I have everyone that Im currently in contact with, I can put it all in an organized google sheet. Ill attempt to reply to currents at least once by the end of the year but that's like 20+ detailed rps so we'll see how far I get.
Happy holidays to all and best wishes!
With lots of love, Bo ❤️
@BocoIate lol we definitely have that in common, disappearing on an rp cuz of anxiety+ Hoping to continue roleplaying with you ❤️
Rping is such a wonderful expression of talent and skill. But like with any other practice, sometimes you end up gaining an injury or getting too old to continue your passion. The doctor tells you to take it easy, and yet, despite it, you keep pushing yourself beyond your limit because you live for the craft
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T-T I keep telling myself I'll write shorter replies and then BAM I somehow fell back into old habits because the RPs just SO GOOD. Honestly you people amaze me and I'm honored to get time out of your day!
@BocoIate Trying to shorten responses is hard sometimes. Especially when faced with so much material.
(1/2) Hello hello! It's been a while I know but I hope you're having a happy holiday whatever you celebrate! ❤️
Life’s happened so I've been pretty MIA aside from either accepting forms or discussing starting an rp.
Given its the holidays and near the end of the year, I plan to go through all of my pms to check in with rp partners to see if they're still interested. So If you've already pmed me in the past, please be patient! And if I still haven't msged you in July, feel free to msg me! I've got a lot to go through since it starts at 2020 but I hope to get bit by bit each day!
Rps generally take me around 1-2 hours of dedicated time to sit and type per one and I've always struggled to keep this number down. As a result, I always end up overwhelmed with mass rps to reply to and never enough time in the day. That's my fault and I'm learning how to manage my time better!
(2/2) With that said, to clean up my pms I'll message people and give them a week to respond before deleting the rp. Don't worry though! If you happen to miss the respond window! Along with deleting it from my inbox, I plan to copy and save each rp in a separate google doc so I can archive it. Seeing a wall of profiles in my inbox is just a little intimidating for me so I hope you understand!
So! Hopefully by putting rps in google sheets I can see where to better focus my time on. Going forward I plan to lessen my reply length (Aside from special circumstances). Hopefully, this will allow the rp more uptime!
I'll be changing the titles to get rid of the ‘detailed’ portion, though I still do expect effort put into the reply from others. As long as we’re both trying our best, that's all I ask!
Thank you to those who’ve stayed with me all these years and I hope to have many more rps to come! ❤️
I'm heading to bed now, but I'll start going through everything tmr! Good morning, good afternoon, good evening, and goodnight!