Booksmart13

@KimFry thank you, again. So much. I will talk to u if I need to (which I probably will). Thanks for offering :)

RSR1522

@Booksmart13 Hi, thanks for the fan. I read your post below, and I kind of have a similar situation. My parents divorced when I was two, my mom remarried and her husband adopted my sister and I. Things were great growing up for the most part. Then, when I was 17, a woman called for my sister, saying she was our aunt. I basically told her to shove it. At 20, I finally let go of the anger I felt at being completely forgotten as a child. Turns out, the adoption records were sealed until we turned 19 (which was when my aunt called for me sister, when she was 19). So I started digging for information, without luck. Luckily, my cousin found me on Myspace (it was in 2005 before Facebook and all). And it turns out, they were looking for me too. So I think that if you're a minor, you can prod a little bit. She was only 15 when she took that leap of faith and contacted me, and I am thankful for getting to know these new family members that have become closer to me than other family. Don't give up hope. And if she tells you off, just remember what I said. I did the same thing, but I was angry. She might be angry too - at first.

Booksmart13

Ok people. I am so confused. Right now I feel conflicted so much. I need help. Here is my story:
          
          My mom and my dad met. My mom already had a daughter (my older sis Meg) and my dad raised her to the best of his ability. She was good enough for him. Ten years passed. My mom got pregnant with me, my sis, and my bro. ( triplets) She was happy. We were born :) I know what your thinking. Happy story, right? Until Dad met The Woman. Mom found out he had an affair with her. Mom and dad divorced, with mom heartbroken and dad in love. Dad and the Woman married. Now here is my dilemma. They had a daughter named Destiny. Problem is: I have never met her. I know nothing about her. Gosh,I don't even know what she looks like! I just want to see her, understand her, be with her. I want to know her crushes, failed relationships, grades, faith, friends, what her favorite food is and if -gosh darnit- if she is addicted to Oreos like me! Another problem- she doesn't know I exist! So if I message her on Facebook or something, she'll think I'm crazy. I barely see my dad, like 3-6 months apart. I'm too scared to talk to him cause he's like a stranger. Things are worse when they moved to North Carolina, USA. I need help. Can anyone help me?