Brunettes_Mess

Oh man I'm exhausted. This is what I'm get for forgetting to take my medicine for like a week straight. 

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Hi everyone! It sure has been a while :). Well, I'm not dead. I hope quarantine is treating you well. Anyway, I have great news. I am working on my own novel! It will not be a fanfiction but something I have created on my own. If you guys still want more fanfiction, I can try to work on it but at the moment I am deep in working on my novel. Love you guys! Don't forget to wash your hands and be careful!

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If you haven't watched the second Frozen, don't read any further. I have small spoilers.
          
          So, in the movie the wind was named Gale by Olaf. Now during the movie, I had a great thought. At first I said, "Hey that's cool. Wind mail..." But then I thought of a better name! 
          
          Gale Mail
          
          I am so very proud of it.

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I have a proposal for all gays around the world. "We wear gay on Monday". It doesn't have to be all rainbow, though that is definitely an option. It can be your own gay, such as grunge or pastel. Whatever makes you feel super gay. Every Monday. And if you aren't out yet, you can either wear something kinda gay or just not do it at all, if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Just have fun with it. And if you decide to do it, I'm thinking #weweargayonmonday is a good hashtag for your post. Seriously, I want to see how far this gets.
          
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Also, aromantic, asexual, demisexual, demiromantic, transgender, and everything of the spectrum counts. 
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Crying is so beneficial to your health. Normally people think that crying makes you sad, depressed, or weak. But it's a really good way to just let steam out. Sometimes, it can be hard to cry. But trust me when I say that you need to cry. And that's why I recommend a really solemn setting. You can read or watch sad things or you can simply insult yourself until you cry. I know what you're thinking. Why would I want to insult myself? But you need to break yourself and cry and let it all out. If you don't, you'll be full of negative thoughts and feelings. You might even explode on someone and that will make you feel worse. So, break yourself. And then rebuild. Make yourself more sturdy and solid. More tolerable. Wipe your tears. Blow your nose. Fix yourself in the mirror. And then smile. And compliment yourself. Tell yourself what you love. Some might be thinking: "I don't love myself at all". But after a really good meltdown, I'm sure you'll find something. And then, watch a comedy. Read a good book. Get on Instagram. Talk to friends. Go to sleep. Take a shower. Anything to calm you down and prepare you for living. 
          
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Sooo, my mom mentioned non-binary and said she didn't understand it. So, I tried to explain. Before I could, my sister attempted to explain it saying that they "want to be girls or boys". You guys this whole conversation made me so mad. They kept on saying that gender and sex were the same thing, that if you have a part, that's your gender, that it's too confusing for someone to be both or neither, and that you can't be a boy one day and then a girl the next. I told them that sex is physical and gender is on the inside, they don't want to feel that way, they just feel that way, it's really not that confusing, just respect pronouns and gender identity, and that it's not confusing because people will probably inform you of how they're feeling and if you're unsure, just use they/them. It's not that hard. You're just being a dick.