Married 24 yrs now (together 28, like OMG),  two grown offspring, stepson is 34, a drummer, and a rock finisher, daughter is 28, a journeyman red seal (RS) approved Millwright (MW) similar to an Industrial Mechanic, like her Dad who is both a MW RS and a Machinist RS. They both work in the Alberta Oilfield in maintenance and turn around / shut down work keeping the big plants running.  The boy is the spitting image of his Dad, but with red hair, and if anything even more stubborn, lol! 
I am ... adjusting to life at home after an MVA in 2003 put paid to what I had hoped would be a promising career in Business with my honours degree in B.Comm. that I had hopes of going farther with but oh well, life had other ideas. 
My husband and I like to travel and I have  plenty of time for that now. I hope to finish some of my writing one day lol but for now my main focus is on getting as well as I can and just getting caught up on the massive amount of things I've fallen behind on.  For now, being an Oilfield Wife & Mum & surviving daily life with a plus sign on any kind of productivity in my life, that's more than enough for now. 
Take care of your loved ones, let them know every day how you feel. You never  know which conversation will be your last with someone, make them all count!