Think of absolutely everyone who has made an impact to your life, no matter what impact is it. 
Even those who have caused you grievous pain. 
Because every experience that you have had has led you to the person that you are now. 
And I bet you are a great person with feelings. 
No matter who you are, I regard you as a friend, even if I don't know it. 
Because I know in my heart, that you will go through pain. So I'll will be there, even if you don't realize it.