Candle_Eater167

Hello everyone that I’m about to disappoint. Well, I’m going on hiatus. I’m going to be getting my license, car, job, and going to school in the fall. (First three are happening in the next week or so and I need to study for my license). 
          	
          	I’m really sorry but I have to take this next step in my life. Unfortunately, I won’t have time to be on here and if I do it will only be to check for updates and notifications. I can’t really say when I’ll be back to update. Again, I’m sorry and I hope that you all can understand.

Candle_Eater167

Hello everyone that I’m about to disappoint. Well, I’m going on hiatus. I’m going to be getting my license, car, job, and going to school in the fall. (First three are happening in the next week or so and I need to study for my license). 
          
          I’m really sorry but I have to take this next step in my life. Unfortunately, I won’t have time to be on here and if I do it will only be to check for updates and notifications. I can’t really say when I’ll be back to update. Again, I’m sorry and I hope that you all can understand.

Candle_Eater167

I DID IT!!! I got my bellybutton and my septum pierced! I’m so proud of myself. (You can see a picture of me with my bellybutton on the latest chapter of The Ambassador). I got a retainer septum and asked for it to be put in hidden so I don’t have a picture of that yet. 
          
          Also, I can’t over exaggerate the muscles/movements around my nose or it’ll hurt. My bellybutton also hurts but that’s to be expected. Lady told me to not touch my nose at all for the first month. She said to clean my bellybutton one at LEAST once a day so I’ve been doing it if it starts to hurt more than usual. So far I’ve done it 4 times today (I got it pierced yesterday). I also looked up how to make saline (saltwater) so I’m not just mixing table salt and tap water. So yea... super proud and super happy.

Candle_Eater167

Piercings yay!!! That is totally not sarcastic but anyways here is my dilemma. So I already know that my mom is supportive of me getting a navel piercing (bellybutton) bUt she doesn’t really like septums... here is some background as to why I want to get one. 
          
          So my younger cousin(only by a few years) really wants a septum piercing. So she tried on a fake one and went downstairs to show it off a little. Problem was that my mom and aunt (her mom) didn’t like it very much and teased her and said how they’d pull her around like a bull. VeRY messed up I know. And that’s why I want to get one first. That way she isn’t treated like the black sheep of the family but I’m sUPer nervous and need some support right now. 
          
          (Also I talked to my bf about getting one and he said that I would look sexy with one but I told him I’d get it done months ago and I really want to surprise him so... yea..)

Candle_Eater167

So I've been bored lately and there's just been a lot on my mind... specifically about writing... and advice... My solution is to write a book about advice. It's more of a lecture, the chapters I mean. I don't really do step by steps. It's called Unsolicited Writing Advice. Great title I know.
          
          Anyways I hope everyone is staying safe, healthy, as well as having a great day/night.

Candle_Eater167

Oh! I forgot to mention that I have an ao3 account. The Ambassador, as well as my original stories are on there. All of the chapters on The Ambassador as well as the others are the exact same on here. (The only difference for The Ambassador are the amount of chapters and chapter titles, the info inside is the exact same though). 
          
          My ao3 account is - AndromedaCrewe367
          
          Anyways I hope everyone is staying safe, healthy, as well as having a great day/night.

Candle_Eater167

THE AMBASSADOR IS FINALLY UPDATED!!! If you go to the last chapter (IT DOESN'T MATTER) it has been updated, meaning that I made it longer. I would like to apologize to everyone for taking so long to update, but unfortunately a few things have came up and had taken priority over this.
          
          Anyways, I hope everyone is staying safe, healthy, as well as having a wonderful day/night.

Candle_Eater167

So if y’all didn’t know I live in Hawaii. In the South Pacific Ocean I’m pretty sure there was an earthquake, something about it being and 8.1. There was a Tsunami warning for New Zealand and there are flood warning for the island that I’m on. It’s been storming like crazy and since I live a bit higher in altitude than a lot of people I haven’t really experienced any floods. Also the internet has been going out so I can’t really be on here. There’s not much of a storm now so I’m able to actually post this notice. 
          
          Anyways, I hope everyone is staying safe, healthy, and happy as well as having a wonderful day/night.

Candle_Eater167

@LittleApricot2 I’m doing just fine don’t worry. Like I said we have more altitude (more into the mountain part) so our house or neighborhood has not experienced any flooding. As far as I know everyone else is doing ok as well. I’m also sure they’re having a fun time surfing. 
            
            The storms also let up a bit every once in a while. However a few hours ago I saw quite a bit of lighting, nothing close so that’s good. But yea... I now hate rain. 
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LittleApricot2

@AndromedaCrewe Oh my gods- are you okay?!
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Candle_Eater167

Hey everyone, a family emergency is happening right now so I can’t be on here for about a week or two. I also won’t be able to work on the chapter during this time. Sorry y’all. 
          
          Anyways, I hope everyone is have a good day/night, as well as staying healthy and safe.

Candle_Eater167

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Now, I'm a straight female. I'm respectful as I possibly can be toward the LGBTQ+ community. I believe that we should all have equal rights. Be paid the same, be treated the same. If you can't handle any form of negativity or a little bit of insensitivity, don't even finish reading this.
          
          I never do this. I never get political on social media and I tend to stay away from it altogether. Now, if you all didn't already know I live in the U.S. I don't have a problem with the LGBTQ+ community. I'm great friends with people that are a part of it. However, the new laws that are being passed I'm not exactly ok with it. 
          
          A new law passed saying how if you identify as a female, as in you switched genders, then you can use the female restroom in public. The one and only reason why I'm against it is because old men, pedophiles and molesters, are going to take advantage and follow little girls into the bathroom. They're going to be more confident. Some might not want to question them in fear offending them. 
          
          However, if I ever witness something like this ever happening, you can bet your ass that I would drive myself to prison for attempted murder/ murder. 
          
          I was all for equal rights and all that shit. But this is another level. If you've fully transitioned into a female and now use the female restroom, go for it. But if a middle aged man, with a large beard and a deep voice, claims to be a female just because he's a perv, laws wouldn't exist in my mind. The only thing that would be going through my mind is how I would bring that mentally ill being to the Lord who would show no mercy.
          
          Be aware, be careful, be cautious.
          
          IF ANY OF YOU WANT A CIVIL DEBATE IM ALL FOR IT. ALL I ASK IS TO BE RESPECTFUL AND TO NOT BULLY ANYONE IF WE ARE TO DO SO.

Candle_Eater167

@bellabellama that is also true, about the placement of the bathrooms. There should be those family bathrooms, the singular ones with the locks on the inside, made. A lot more of them. I’m all for inclusion but if it raises the risk of hurting other people, I can’t directly support it.
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@AndromedaCrewe TW: nasty words.  hey, I'm cis lesbian and a victim of r***, however I can't speak on the behalf of male to female transitioned folks. While I agree that there are going to be some nasty opportunist f***s who'll want to abuse the heck out of this system, its my theory that the restrooms themselves are the issue. Bathrooms are literally always some place secluded and out of sight, both male and female bathrooms in the same isolated area. Which is convenient for potential predators because they can appear like they're going to the bathroom of their respectful pronouns even if they are in fact stalking a female. I just feel it isn't as simple. While I'm glad the laws are more inclusive too, I feel like the bathrooms need to change to promote safety and discourage predators. I can't wait to hear from you xx
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