I saw your comments on Behind The Curtains and find them so insightful. I have found abuse to be such a tough subject because readers struggle to empathize with a victim. It’s something I face with my own story about abuse many times, the endless comments on why didn’t she leave. It... sucks. So I totally agree with you on the need for that A/N.
And your comment about that fear of ending up in an abusive relationship is real. It’s something I tackle in my writing.