~Ava~

Hey!

On a less serious note I’ve finally updated my fanfiction (in case any of you guys are still after more than a year of no updates lmao)
          Hope you enjoy
          
          And remember 
          DOING WHAT YOU LOVE IS NEVER A WASTE OF TIME. 
          And remember to forgive yourself for being who you needed to be
          You are worthy of good things 
          Your mistakes don’t define you
          You are loved <3

Here I am again after more than a year damn.. ngl kinda missed this place
          But yeah hey everyone!! How’ve you been doing?
          
          (Trigger warning for ass••lt and r@pe)
          You know im actually kinda late for this cause these events have been happening for a long time already  but this needs to be said. For those of you who might not know, s•x related crimes have been on the rise lately. Countries like India have recently been going through a turmoil due to it. Search it up for details. What’s infuriating is the government is trying to hide it all up.
          
          But you know what The real questions are?
          There are number of steps women take every day to prevent getting r@ped, But are the same number of steps being taken to prevent r@  pists? 
          Are r@pists half as cautious as women are every  single day, before committing such horrendous crimes???
          How long will their behaviour be justified as impulsive tendencies? How long will women (and men) be blamed for what’s being done to them? How long will r@pists go unpunished? How long will they remain unbothered by what they’re doing? How long until they’re actually accountable for what they do?
          We can sit here and do nothing thinking “some thing’s can’t be changed” but we’d just be kidding ourselves. Things can change, but not unless we actually do something about it. Sitting around and forgetting or ignoring these things happen do nothing but hinder the process. 
          We call ourselves a free nation. But for whom? The r@pists? Cause we ARENT FREE. 
          We deserve to feel safer than R@pists. And that’s not the fucking case. 
          This needs to change. 
          
          Not to mention there are some men feeling attacked and still using dumb responses like “not all men” 
          DUDE BY YOUR LOGIC RUSSIAN ROULETTE IS A SAFE GAME
          not all the chambers have bullets only one in 6 does
          Tbh the likelyhood of getting SAed or r@ped is more actually. So Russian roulette is actually safer. 
           Just wow. 

Hey everyone! How are you all! 
          I’ve been gone so long I’ve started to wonder whether you guys even remember me anymore haha
          
          Just here to remind you guys tho and please don’t stop reading....let your good days affect you more than your bad ones. And if you haven’t been having good days, then start finding the small things good in the bad ones. Maybe the weather was good, maybe you saw a new species of bird. Maybe you saw a small child smile at smth innocent. There can be an infinite number of maybes. Find your own happiness cause no one’s going to do it for you.
          
          I’ve had a horrible day, and I don’t say that for sympathy but to let you know you’re not alone. And to remind myself I’m not alone either. 
          We can’t just sit and wait for someone to help us, or do our things for us. 
          Get up. You’ve got this. Find your own happiness. Find your driving force. You matter. You are loved. I believe in you.
          
          Remember! If any of you ever feel low, my dm’s are always open. I might take a while to respond, but I will. 

Hey girl
          Remember that day we were arguing?

Thanks for voting on my poems 

Hi everyone, ik I’m pretty late about this, but still i just want to wish everyone a very happy men’s mental health month!
          
          Men are an extremely important part of our society, but..I think we all understand that, the fact we need to recognize is their deteriorating mental health is a huge problem in today’s world. All the expectations placed on them, all the pressure and burden they are put through is definitely taking a toll not only on them, but the entire society as well. 
          
          This year I noticed people celebrating men’s mental health day not because they felt it was important, but because “if it were women’s mental health month everyone would be posting about it.” This I feel is completely unnecessary. No one stops anyone from celebrating anything, yet still people are using that excuse to celebrate it.
          Men’s mental health is important. And while many believe in the “macho men are the real men” mindset, I believe men too should have the freedom of expressing their emotions to their loved ones without the fear that they’ll be mocked, but keep in mind I’m not shaming the men who choose to keep things to themselves, being someone who tends to the same.
          
          I just think it’s important that we make the men in our life feel free of unneeded pressure that is caused just because of their gender. I think both genders must be equally pushed to become an independent person, I think men should have the freedom of choice, instead of being forced into a pre decided path because of the pressure that they need to support the family. Men s*icide rates are sky high, and it’s high time that we do something to prevent it. 
          
          Till next time, Ava signing off

Thank you for the follow!!! <333

Heyyy! How have y’all been? 
          
          Just wanted to wish everyone A VERY HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! 
          
          It’s been ages since I was last active on here, but I’ve been thinking of getting back on here for a while, les see how school treats me haha
          Miss everyone<3

hey how are you doing? haven't heard from you in a while.
          
          ❤️