@flamlouant yeah I got the first notification as well :)
and what you said is so important!
a lot of the time you hear people saying they've been hurt or betrayed and thats why they cant open up anymore. but as you said, I think we're often just really scared of what we might be capable of ourselves. because if youve seen your own demons you suddenly start to see them in everyone else as well. or you think you see them, make them up perhaps but still get scared.
if we could be honet with ourselves, if we could adress these demons and tell the world "this is me" from the very beginning , we wouldn't have to be scared of what others might be hiding.
people could be open with eachother and there wouldnt be this constant nagging fear of "what else is in there, when will it come out, is it worse than what Ive got".